my younger sister (21) had a baby in may of this year and she won't take care of the baby, the baby is almost 4 months old and our mom has had her since she was a week old. my sister says that she doesn't have the mother's instinct and she doesn't feel anything different since she has had the baby. This is the big problem I just found out last night that she is 5 weeks pregnant again!!and now she wants to get the baby back from my mom and my mom is already attached to her. and they both call me crying and i just don't know what to do or to say to them. please help!
2006-09-06 15:57:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Tell your mother and your sister to work together. These babies will need both of them.
2006-09-06 16:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, The Baby Is Already Attatched To Your Mother, And It Would Be Wrong To Take The Baby Away...! Your Sister Should Never Of Got Pregnant In The First Place If She Didn't Have A Mother Instinct! What Is She Gonna Do About The Baby She's Pregnant With Now? Give It Up Too...? Well Good Luck With The Whole Thing!...
2006-09-07 00:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by *Proud Mommy Of 2* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so here is what I think, I think your sister left the baby with your mom for 4 months and now all of a sudden whats the baby back? your sister is Selfish and very childish, and your mother should have gotten Custody a long time ago. if your sister didn't love the baby then, why does she all of a sudden love the baby now, Plus with another baby on the way she will have NO TIME. Your mom should keep the baby and your sister should have her other baby and get on some Damn birth control pills, and not be so damn Selfish.
2006-09-07 00:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by fandj4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that kind of happened to my mom and dad with my niece when my niece was born my sister was young and my mom took care of her and did everything for that baby my sister was around but she mostly did her own thing so I was like she had a kid but didn't have to take care of it and got to do what she wanted all the time. Then my sister got pregnant with my nephew and are she had her little boy my mom felt that she need both of her kids because I wasn't fair to my niece for her brother to be with his mom and not her. I broke my mom's heart my niece was already 4 1/2 years old when she had to give her back to her mother. It was hard on the both but my sister had to take care or her kids and I was something mom felt she had to do. Everybody needs to sit down like adluts and disuss what is best for the baby and really come to a understanding to do what is best for the baby. Good Luck
2006-09-07 11:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way it sounds your mom should give the baby back. When your sister has the other baby there is a big chance your mom will end up with both of them anyway.
2006-09-06 23:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by ckoladawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a girl I know. I would suggest that everyone sits down and talks about it. If you sister is just now realizing she wants back the first baby, maybe she realized that the state will help her alot more with two. I hate when this happens. So many people who would make great parents cant conceive and these girl who shouldn't be a parents just keeps popping them out.I wish you all the best of luck and hope the right choice is made. God Bless!
2006-09-06 23:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by Terri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom can possibley take your sister to court to take the baby from her... your sister is taking her baby that has only known your mothe and that home... it isn't good to juggle a baby around from person to person or home to home... your sister didn't want the baby in the first place and now she shouldn't try to monkey with a stable life your mother is providing for the baby! Your mother should contact Social services or an Attorney.
2006-09-06 23:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by M~Lyna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww that is sad. It's too bad your sister got pregnant again so soon though. Maybe your sister has post pardom depression, and it's not fair that you have to be put in the middle of it either. As the Aunt, Sister, and Daughter you have a very sketchy predicament. Good luck honey.
2006-09-06 23:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by brooklynsss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Mom does not have custody of the baby, then there is nothing she can do.
Good Luck, but my guess is that Mom will have 2 babies shortly. And Sis should get her tubes tied.
2006-09-06 23:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by starting over 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The baby is your sister's. Your mother needs to revert back to being the grandparent.
2006-09-06 23:03:17 · answer #10 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋