mastrubation?

Question

why do people mastrubate? i dunno if i spelled it rite...but im just wondering...ive been wondering it all day. and my firend always does it and she wont tell me why she does it so i thot that id ask u

Answer 1

When children hit puberty, there bodies start to produce different hormones than they used to, this results in hair growth in different areas of the bodies, the development of breast in girls and the start of there period and in boys the 'breaking' of there voice and the testicles will 'drop'. When these things occur you are basically reaching a sexually mature age. With these outward signs of puberty and sexually maturity, the hormones also affect the brain in ways as well. This will mean that you might have an increased interest in people of the opposite sex. This may result in you noticing that your private areas feel (pleasently) different than normal, although you might not know what it is you are basically at this stage feeling sexual desire - but you are too young to enagage in sex. It is common in a lot of people that when they feel like this they will touch themselves in there sexual areas (vagina in girls or penis in boys), this will increase there sexual desire and the need for gratification. From this first touch it is likely that they will continue touching themselves until they reach a peak point, which is commonly referred to as a climax or orgasm.
It is highly enjoyable, does not hurt you or anybody else, and is a normal part of development.
That you have not experienced this yet probably means that you are still quite young, and may not have started puberty - or have just started puberty and are curious about such things.
What you are feeling is normal and is something that every person goes through on there way to being an adult. It is nothing to be ashamed about or embarrassed about, it is also something that is not normally discussed with friends as it is a deeply private and intimate thing that you are or will be doing, so if discussed with friends - please make sure that they are very close friends who are mature enough to understand without making fun of you or telling others in order to cause you embarrassment.

Answer 2

People do it to attain something called climax, or an orgasm. It has the same effects a person would feel by having sex (excluding another person, pregnancy and STDS). Some people due it to relieve stress, while others do it, just because it feels good. Alot of people though, get into a habit of doing it all the time and it sometimes affects their personal lives.

Its more of an ethicial question if it's good or bad though. Physically, it makes your legs a little weaker for a short period of time (I'm an amateur kickboxer, I know these things from experience), and lowers testosterone in men.

Answer 3

Being a disabled vet and a retired now military ranger sniper for 18 years, it truly is the proper ingredient for each body. because the following in u . s . a . (I actually were to 13 international places in Europe and lived with a pal immediately in Germany) women persons would not bypass out with a guy like me, in accordance with personality and being a sturdy respectable human being. My incapacity verify would not be sufficient for them, no longer operating-even for a valid reason. women persons in my own united states are all about themselves and they want a guy who can convey homestead the money. So with out masturbation and my sniper skills might want to be putting off women persons left and proper. yet masturbation lowers testosterone degrees and violent tendencies. So that's a god despatched.

Answer 4

You're telling me you're still a self-virgin? Wow! I don't mean to be rude, but that's pretty anal (no pun intended). People usually start doing it in their teens simply out of peer pressure and mostly curiosity. A lot of them just experiement with it then ease off and grow up. However, most of them become addicted to it because it just feels so damn good. Try it once, it's nice. But don't get into a habit of doing it because then you'll never stop (not that it's bad for you-in fact, it's actually very good for you).

Answer 5

okay itreleases certain tension in your body like have you had a reallyrealy long stresss full, day have you ben like wanting to pull your hair out fling dishes in the air triping over the cat hons?? have you anyways ever ;layed in your bed and seen a really erotic or sexy movie on tv and just statring geting turned on?? its like pluging in a toaster and when it lights up so do you hons!! humann nature!!

Answer 6

women dont necessarily have to masturbate
but men do
about 20 of women can completely avoid masturbating
but 80 of women will have to
like men
men will have to masturbate
their body is designed that way
it causes frustration and anxiousness if you dont
you are one of the 20 who dont have to

Answer 7

No wife, no girlfriend or boyfriend, no money 4 prostitutes, I don't do animals- these R a few reasons that come to mind, on one hand; on the other........

Answer 8

this is the first time i have ever heard a girl in my life admit to mastrubation (its probably spelled wrong)

Answer 9

Because it feels really good and it helps relieve tension. Try it, you might just like it!

Answer 10

relieves tension and feels good but not as good as the real thing