2006-09-06 15:42:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ight homeboy i got u.....iight this wut u need to do.Realize that they lookin at U and u been chillin doin yo thing. So when u step 2 them be like this...."Hey how are ya'll doin. My name is ____ and I was tryin be cool and holla at yall. I seen yall lookin and i jus wanted to see wutz good. Im jus lookin to meet friends and yall look mad cool so wut up????" Dont come off like u tryin HOLLA AT Em but jus come off as a friendly face. Later on if u mad cool they gon open up 2. The best u can do now is take the 1st step and be a man and step 2 them. No girl wants a lame dude who can't step 2 them. Girls notice when the guy takes initiative. U kno sumthin like that...u kno because itz best to jus TAKE A DAMN CHANCE u no cuz even if u look lame in front of them u kno u still the one that they was lookin at in the first place......Im goin through that now in school....College is a good thing....so many fine women. hope it helps dawg
2006-09-06 15:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by cool kid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're too nervous to go up to one of them, then go up to ten others. Fail miserably where the stakes are low so you can get some game to succeed with one of those girls that really interest you. It's college, man, there's enough alcohol and drugs flying around that they're not going to remember anyhow.
2006-09-06 22:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing that could happen is a rejection. I say find a common interest thing to approach them with and go from there. She may be in the cafeteria and you could talk about the bad food and maybe make her giggle and go from there.
Good luck and be BOLD! You only live once.
2006-09-06 22:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying something funny always breaks the ice. But in general, just act as if you want to be friends with them, they appreciate that. Don't hit on them with stupid game.
2006-09-06 22:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by thebrockmillionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for one that you like( one special) and then if you are too nevrous to start a conversation then go give her a lil present( like a little teddy bear or a little card)....if you give her the teddy bear, make sure its small...no bigger than two inches...then when she asks you why you are giving it to her, then just say that its because she is very pretty and you would like to be good friends with her....Well Good luck!
2006-09-06 22:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by Re2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you start with a ' Hello ' while you're walking by. Then if you can compliment them or say something nice or try to make them laugh.
2006-09-06 22:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecca C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be nice , smile alot , be a gentleman, some woman really love the shy guys good luck
2006-09-06 22:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by 1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drink lots of beer, you're in college for heaven sakes.
2006-09-06 22:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow some testes and take a chance.
2006-09-06 22:44:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take up a martial arts, it will teach you discipline get you fit and confidence will follow...in all things
2006-09-06 22:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋