hi my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 3 1/2 years. sometimes we have spats and arguments. which i know will turn a man off. really.So now i try to get more involved into me, reading the bible, and listening to some revival messages by spiritual preachers. and now im becomin more confident of life period, and the other night out of the blue he came and said "I love you, Youve been good to me" and gave me a kiss. i just cant stop thinkin aobut that, i thought that was the sweetest thing that he acknowledge that im makin a difference in our realationship. what u think he meant by it?
2006-09-06 15:22:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably exactly what you are thinking. I think its really sweet that he wanted to let you know how he felt. I give you all kinds of props for making that change in your life. Thats great...and you are an inspiration to me.
2006-09-06 15:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by ***Miss Ria*** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him when he tells you that you're the one he's going to marry...HE KNOWS you are the right one he wants to spend the rest of his life with. You were friends with him for 3 yrs before dating, so you both got to know each others well enough to know. And no guys do not say that kind of stuff to just any girl unless he's truly in love.
2016-03-27 00:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he said it because you are not paying that much attention to him screwing up and that you have stopped nagging you know how men are they want a women that they can run all over and at the end of the day go home and not hear any nagging. They think that they have the right to do what ever they want and we are to sit back and take it.
2006-09-06 15:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he means exactly what he said, if this is the first time he has ever told you he loves you, then take that moment and cherish it......most men at some point actually see when they have a good woman by their side, it seems like yours has realised that whilst you are still in his life and NOT when you are long gone from it.
2006-09-06 15:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by candy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably that he loves you and you've been good to him. Men have blasts of light every now and then and they don't mean anything.... except that he loves you and appreciates the life you have together. Enjoy and Good Luck with the rest of your lives
2006-09-06 15:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by gummybear1772 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a positive influence in his life. It is sweet that he stopped and took the time to tell you and did not just take you for granted. That is what most of us women ask for in our man. Good for you!
2006-09-06 15:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by 75160 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be a really good thing as in a proposal, or it could be a bad thing, and an easy way of breaking in off.
2006-09-06 15:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your making a big difference in your relationship, and he is beginning to see that you are a very nice, and sweet woman(he already knew it) he just wanted to make sure you was what he wanted, and now he sees your are his everything..... and it is sweet for a man to say that to a woman, not many do, so you are very lucky.... and he's really lucky to have you tooooo.... good luck with him, and i wish you the best
2006-09-06 15:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by miss.d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know what he means by that. It's self explanitory, Just be lucky your blessed with having someone who acknowledges what you're doing. Thats wonderful!
2006-09-06 15:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by Irishbeauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's really proud of you. And he appreciates the way you treat him.. I'm glad things are going good. Good for you!
2006-09-06 15:24:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋