I told him i was divorced , I didn't think it would last this long I guess I'll pray he doesn't ever bring home the ring ?
2006-09-06 15:15:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way my husband doesn't live in this state nor do I have contact with him !!!!
2006-09-06 15:19:41 · update #1
If you really cared you'd get that divorce and never tell him the truth will forgetting about it yourself. If he starts questioning find a legitamate excuse that could have held up the divorce and been overlooked Good luck
2006-09-06 15:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by rascal 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is WAY too late after 3 years! If you have no intention of ever leaving your husband and marrying this guy, then you are wasting his time and keeping him away from true happiness. Not to mention the fact that you are cheating on your husband. Pick ONE man and cut the other one loose.
2006-09-06 22:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a little late now.
People like you give women a bad name. You are a cheat (on your husband) and a liar. If you don't want to be married, get divorced. If you want to be married, then act that way - to your husband - but you have no right to string someone along for 3 years with lies, lies, lies.
2006-09-06 22:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds familiar. Maybe you could file for divorce before he brings home the ring. Unless you think it will be ugly you could do it and he'd never really know the difference.
You could also try telling him straight up what happened but I don't think I would. I would be afraid that the one stupid mistake might ruin everything. I would hate for my ex to ruin two relationships for me.
2006-09-06 22:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are 3 years late on this, hearts is going to be broken and hurt.All I can say you were wrong,and what gos around comes around,when you hurt someone it will come back to you.I would get this taken care of right away so these guys can get on with there life and find some one who does not cheat on them.
2006-09-06 22:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes thats gonna hurt if he finds out on his own!! y did u wait this long, y not at 1 year or.... oh well. U've either gotta get that divorce and make it the truth or bite the bullet n tell him that its a technicality and that its not u holding up proceedings. Or is it?
2006-09-06 22:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by Belle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just break up with the one you like least, get a devorce or break up with the other guy, it's that simple. Just tell him you don't think you should see each other anymore. And if he asks why tell him it's for pesonal reasons. Your not lying than, just streching the truth a little.
2006-09-06 22:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by steve 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to say this but you are royally screwed! Why did you let this relationship go on for so long? He is going to be crushed.
2006-09-06 22:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You better get a divorce. And fast!
2006-09-06 22:22:58 · answer #9 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth, the more you wait, the bigger the sinkhole gets.
2006-09-06 22:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋