The vagina and anus are so close together anal sex is pleasurable says she but why would she want to stick her finger up mine,help I dont want her to!She says relax is it worth bracing myself and ladies do you really want it that way?
2006-09-06 15:02:42 · 11 answers · asked by pisspot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.s im a bloke and her fingers are small but the nails scare me.
2006-09-06 15:18:48 · update #1
get her to do it just as you are about to shoot - you'll be amazed! and so will she if she is in the firing line!
2006-09-07 05:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by curiousness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend wants to put her finger up your anus because your G-spot is up there. By massaging your prostate gland, she can give you a more intense orgasm.
If you change your mind and let her, insist that she cuts her nails short and uses a nail file to blunt them. She should also use loads of lubricant and consider a pair of rubber gloves for hygiene.
If you really don't fancy it, it's not her place to pressure you into something you aren't happy with. She can massage your prostate gland externally by massaging the perenium (gap between the back of your testicles and your anus.) Tell her that she can find it by feeling the area when you are having an orgasm, it's the spot that pulses with the orgasm.
Try to be nice to your girlfriend about this incredibly personal issue. She obviously wants to share everything with you and have no barriers between you. Trust her when she says she wants anal sex, I wouldn't want it but each person is different. Just make sure you do it carefully and safely. Read some sex manuals before you try it.
2006-09-06 21:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ms Lady is obviously sexually inexperienced. Most men are apprehensive about trying this act... and I can understand why. But once they have had that experience, I must tell you that they really enjoy it!
If you are willing to take on a challenge and you can relax, then go for it. But if you are really against this then tell your girlfriend that you don't feel comfortable. As I have already said, most men enjoy this but some don't so don't feel pressured.
As for whether ladies want it that way, in my opinion, the majority of women are eager to please their man. And trust me, it may sound crude but a finger in the *** can be pleasurable! She wants to satisfy your needs!
2006-09-06 21:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mizzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you a girl or a boy? I feel like any boy or man that enjoys something sticking in and out of they're *** is a *** and as for your girlfriend she just a freak..!
2006-09-06 15:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Lady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have found that guys really enjoy it, and you only live once so why not give it a shot?
2006-09-06 15:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by haunted_angel85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can be enjoyable if you relax!! Some people like that and some don`t. Tongue is better!!
2006-09-06 15:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men really like it. Why don't you try it? If you don't like it, don't do it again! She should respect your likes and dislikes.....
2006-09-06 19:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How big are her fingers?
2006-09-06 15:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ugh any girl that would put her fingers up there is a braver girl than me!!!!! oh gross!!!
2006-09-06 22:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wwhhhoooaaa there lol
2006-09-06 17:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋