The guy that I like hinted that he wanted me to give him a "*******" but I haven't. It's been about 5 weeks since he's said something about it. We haven't had any type of sex yet. He calls me a lot and still flirts with me. I'm scared to take it further because I think that's all he wants. But if it is--isn't he being a bit too patient? Can't guys get that anywhere and basically from anyone willing? How should I handle this?
2006-09-06 15:00:05 · 29 answers · asked by Ree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't have sex before marriage. If you have already make a new start with purity. They guy who has sex with you and won't date you without sex is the guy who will leave you when someone else comes along.
The Guy who will wait until after the Wedding is the guy who really loves you and will remain faithful in marriage.
Sex before marriage is selfish. If you go out with a user you will feel used. You can catch diseases and perhaps conceive a child. You will have low self esteem and make poor choices in other areas of your life.
I repeat, The Guy who will wait until after the Wedding is the guy who really loves you and will remain faithful in marriage. You will be free to make a choice with both eyes open. It's your life. Don't throw it away.
God Bless You, ;-)
2006-09-06 15:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he really cares about you, he wouldn't say something as ridiculous as that! On the other hand, he could just be a, lets just use the friendly word, goober, that doesn't know how to act around a girl that he likes. Just flat out tell him that you aren't going to do that, and that it makes you uncomfortable when he behaves like that. If he keeps pressuring you, then he probably is just an a hole. If he does back off, then maybe he truly is interested in you and was just trying to get SOME sort of reaction from you. Regardless of what it actually is, do NOT let him pressure you into something that you are not comfortable with!
2006-09-06 22:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys can get sex alot not as much as girls but they do well. MAybe he really likes you some guys do only want sex but they usually dont take alot of time getting to know you if you think thats all he wants then u heading in to it with the worste anyways maybe he will be a great guy and not just want sex and maybe if you do give in it will be great the worst is he does only want sex and after a few dates you can tell and then cut it off
2006-09-06 22:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by taken 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys can and can't get it everywhere. If he hasn't said anything to you about it then maybe he was joking. If he was serious then maybe he does want to do it. You never know if a guy just wants sex or more. Here's a hint: If your not dating him or have a serious relationship then you can bet that its just about the sex. I hope everything goes all right and you don't get hurt. Good Luck!
2006-09-06 22:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are so sweet. Yeah, that's what he wants. And he's probably got four or five more lined up just like you. He is working all of you up, patiently luring his prey. No, they can't get it anywhere, and not so many are willing. Save yourself the heartache. Don't take it further.
2006-09-06 22:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by steelypen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well of course he is still flirting with u, he thinks he is gonna get what he wants. it could b that u r just more of a challenge & makes it more interesting. yes he could & prob does get that from anywhere, so do u really want 2 b one of his conquests??? this doenst sound like u r even in a realtionship with this guy, so i dont know why u would even consider. do u think that he is gonna stay with u if u give him what he wants. think again...
2006-09-06 22:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by ladydi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's all he wants. You're just in a long line of chicks he's asked I'm sure. Don't give anything as meaningful as your sex life up to someone that will use it an forget it (you).
2006-09-06 22:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first uh all if dats all he wanted he would of got it the first nite. its been 5 weeks and he hasnt said ne thing bout it then he must be waiting on you. If you really like this guy n he likes you then it will happen when it happens. don't rush it. remember true love waits
2006-09-06 22:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by nicole_26ukno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL..they wish they could get it anywhere from anyone. Hunny, he stated his intentions early on, don't be suprised that after you do it he leaves. He probably has a bet with his buddies on how long before you give in!
2006-09-06 22:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made my boyfriend wait for over a year we have now been married for 10 years - he told me that if I would of gave in to him quickly - we probably would not be together today just a thought to ponder
2006-09-06 22:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by wildway0304 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋