2006-09-06 14:57:10 · 44 answers · asked by Circlometry?? 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
its still not to late to abort
2006-09-09 08:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No.
1. Your child was not the product of an unsuccessful abortion. He was the product of two people having sex. You tried to abort, and he held on.
2. There is no reason that a child would need to know this, nor would it be good for him to know this.
2006-09-06 15:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - why would you want your child to know that? If the abortion was unsuccessful what made you decide to keep him and not give him up for adoption?
Just asking because if there is any resentment you need to be careful you don't give him this info during a moment of anger.
2006-09-06 15:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by AlongthePemi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if your parent told you that, you were a product of an "unsuccessful abortion" or that they wanted to put you up for adoption but no one wanted you! Do I need to further answer your stupid, insensitive question?
2006-09-06 15:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by KO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of parent are you? Why don't you just tell your son that you fooled around, got pregnant, and oops..the mistake was made. I tried to get rid of you, but it was unsuccessful.
I could never live with myself if I had an abortion a baby is life no matter if it is just been conceived or full term and delivered
would you have wanted your mom to do the same?
2006-09-06 15:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by Trina S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just my feelings about this, no, do not tell your child. I know as parents we are suppose to be honest with our children and as I was raising mine I might of been a little to honest. In this case you should just block it from your mind and love that child every day that he is there and thank God that what ever went wrong, did go wrong. He is your child and will be for the rest of your life, let it go. That is just my feeling on this topic.
2006-09-06 15:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No No No, don't put something in your child's mind that doesn't need to be there. My mom had me at 16, she could've easily aborted me and I'm glad she didn't because I love my mom very much and I have 2 beautiful children so I'm glad my mom wanted me even at such a young age! She did a good job, I have a loving husband and a successful life!
2006-09-06 15:03:36 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, believe me your child will NEVER get over being told that. To be told that is cruel and I question the motive behind it. If you are that filled with resentment, go get counseling. A child should never be held responsible for their parent's irresponsibility. Take responsibility for your actions and do the right thing. Always treat the child with respect and perhaps you will earn theirs.
2006-09-06 15:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by lavenderbluelassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. This is not something a 'child' should know. I really don't think there is any benifit to you child in knowing this information. You may feel like telling him would be 'honest' but it wouldn't do him any good, and could possibly do a lot of harm.
2006-09-06 15:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by mayasmom1204 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to do something as cruel as that? The implied message is that "you were not wanted. You were a mistake." I work with teenagers who have behavioral and emotional disorders. Unresolved anger and the feelings of being unloved and unwanted are the roots of their behavior.
Why would you want to hurt your child like that?
That may be a secret that I would take to my grave with me!
2006-09-06 15:10:08 · answer #10 · answered by Barbara M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU SERIOUS!!! you shouldn't have even tried to abort the child! and to tell him that his was unsuccessful!! ugh! no no no no no no!
you get the worst decision of your life award
2006-09-06 15:05:41 · answer #11 · answered by augusta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋