Question for women (part 2)??

Question

When you women say your men can last for like 1/2 hour, does that mean actually penetration? Or does that include everything, foreplay and such? If I could get my husband to go that long, that would be great! Any ways to help him? We haven't had sex in a while, because we just went through a miscarriage and my hormones are all out of whack, and i'm not feeling romantic lately! But i know when we have sex more frequently he does much better! But still not 1/2 hour!
HELP!

We have talked about it, and he wants to go longer too! So we have been trying a few things, stop and take a breather, which doesnt do much for me, because when it starts to feel good he needs to stop! Which i don't mind if it helps him!
Most of the time he gets off, i don't! Maybe thats why sex isnt a huge thing to me?!

Answer 1

That is just penetration. Maybe to make your guy last longer, avoid too much foreplay. That can work him up so much that when he finally penetrates he's already ready. Also haivng sex frequently makes them last longer because they don't have all of that build up.

Answer 2

Well me and my guy can go for 1 hour and more but that's with foreplay and then penetration. I don't know about anyone else. But it is possible to go for 30 minutes with foreplay. My advice to keep having sex since you see it's an improvment then it is working. He probably did not have that much experience in his lifetime. My man can last long because of practice not because he was born with it. It takes a lot of practice and take your time. I suggest you use sex toys and try other things to see what you like and explore why you are not feeling like he is feeling it. You probably just like for it to be long and that's or probably you just need to make sex more exciting, come on girl try some new positions and try out some toys. Some guys last longer with certain positions and the key for your guy to last longer is just about self control, let him continue to practicing having self-control, you both will do fine. It's good that you both are communicating about this. Girls most of the time why my man goes for hours is because we go back to back, you know like he comes and we go at it again that's probably what some of these girls are talking about. Cause sometimes going so long be having me wish he hurry up and come already and also before I go try to get on top that can also help him to last long.

Answer 3

Some men going on dates sometimes "j*** off" before they go out so that when they get to the bedroom with the woman, they are able to last longer. Why not try this approach? An hour or so before you are ready to hit the sheets together, let him "release the tension", (or even maybe help him, manually or orally). If you feel there is something wrong with him, he could see a doctor, but this is a relatively simple thing that even at teenage age, some men will start doing. It might be worth the try. (Also feel flattered that you are so great in bed)

Answer 4

I would work on making it pleasurable for both of you and not on making it last longer. Who cares how long it lasts as long as you enjoy it while it does. Me and my husband have been together for 10 yrs and most of the time its not more than 10 mins. And those 10 mins are amazing. On the rare occasion that it is longer than 20 mins its usually just OK. Just make it great no matter how longer it lasts. The longer the sex the less time to sleep or what ever you want to do,

Answer 5

Usually the more frequent you guys have sex or he masturbates, he'll last longer ( see scene from Something About Mary). Your should expect at least 20 minutes, there are these crazy 3 hour stories, but really longer isn't always better. Are you actually complaining or are you wondering if that's weird because your husbands off the norm?

Answer 6

I am a man but i am still answering coz i think it will help you. I used to be a 5 minute wonder and it worked for me but not for my spouse. So I started reading and found that if a man can learn to control his excitement it helps. It doesn't change overnight it took me about 2-3 months but now i can go at least 1/2 hour sometimes even an hour. My spouse told me that she didn't come in about a year but now she does almost everytime. It keeps me happy too. The secret is to understand his own self. No one can do it better than him ... not a doctor. The best way i learned is masterbating. Ask him to masterbate and when he feels like he is going to come ask him to stop and think of something else and cool down and when he cools down ask him to start again. He may not be able to control the first few times ... no problem keep trying. As i said it took me almost a 2 months to master this but the outcome is marvelous. Now i now how to slow myself down just a tad bit wheere i can still satusfy her but do not have to STOP and can still control my own self.

hope it helps.

Answer 7

i got this video called the lovers guide and there was a tip in it where you allow the penis to become erect and the place two fingers and your thumb at either side at the tip and gently press this causes the erection to go down a little then stop it should come back.... doing this repeatedly trains the penis to last longer, you probably need to see the video to really understand what i mean

Answer 8

every guy is different. Sometimes my husband does not last long, and sometimes he can drag it out forever. If you want it to last longer then try to take control. A guy knows how to please himself, but might not know how to please you. That and don't fake it. Let him know you need more time. Just say to him to slow down.
good luck

also if you have talked about it, then mabey you need more stimulation before. Try to get him to pay more attention to you before. But this also might turn him on. When you know he is going to finish, have him talk provocative toward you. I love when my husband does this.

Answer 9

Try a different position. My man last longer in certain positions than he does in others.

Answer 10

sorry, no guy can last that long if he's excited enough. If he's not turned on that much maybe he can hit 15 mins max.