My boyfriend is bi...........?

Question

Ok, my boyfriend is bisexual. is that bad? i know all about fleeing from sexual immortality, but is this really bad. he is in love with me. we both know we are the one for each other. were going to be with each other forever, and we both know it. is it still wrong for him to be bi though? should i be worried?

Answer 1

Dramtically increases the chance he'll bring you home a gift that keeps on giving like herpes or aids, but if being the part-time interest is enough for you...

Sexual immorality aside, is crawling into a bed with a man whose in the mood for hairy man-butt sex half the time really your idea of the best you can have in life?

Answer 2

If you are ok with him being Bi. Then the relationship is fine. You seem like you both trust each other enough to be faithful to one another. That says alot. I don't see anything wrong with being Bi. the question is do you. Becuase it will always be apart of him even if you two get married and have kids and is faithful to you for the rest of his life.

It just might be alittle weird for awhile becuase it will be completely new to both of you. It would be alittle akward to have a bf that also thinks that orlando bloom is the hottest guy ever. But just enjoy each other while you can. If it doesn't work out it's ok, i promise you will gain alot just from the time spent with him. And that's true for any relationship you have with another person be it romantic or not.

Answer 3

I suppose you have to question yourself more on that. How would you feel if someday down the road , he wants a change-for a man? Are you going to be jealous of women and men he looks at now? How committed is he? To me it's only bad if someone is intentionally hurting another . If he is very open and communicative with you is not hurting you then you are going into this with open eyes and by your own choice.

Answer 4

give him a really amazing lap dance & strip tease, I'm posotive it will work. dancing provocativly one-on-one w/ a guy always does. HOWEVER-if you two love each other wether he is bi or straight shouldnt matter. Yet, if it was my boyfriend, I would be a little worried, Ive dated a guy who was questioning his sexuality, and in all honesty it was extremelly hard to keep the relationship going.

Answer 5

Nope , it's not bad. This is who he is. I think, if you already have accepted this part of his life, you're a wonderful partner for him. He can be very lucky. Now, talk openly about Sexuality. Cause it's important that he and also you do safe sex. Be open about the subject. Tell him your concerns about the aspect of him being Bi. I have a Bi(female friend), who is in a monogamous Lesbian relationship. She prefers her girl above a men. Even so once in a while she states to us:"Gosh, this men's butt is sexy isnt? " I think it's up to us individually to make the best out of it. I think open communication is the key not to worry about your relationship.

If you still have doubts confere with a Therapist or read a good book about the subject. Hope this helps.

Answer 6

The only thing to worry about is a little bitty virus know as AIDS

Answer 7

No but if this is messing around in your life(I.E. somebody else knows that he's Bi and tey're spreading rumors, etc.)then have a one on one talk(more like a conversation)with him about what's going on and how you both can help get this thing of both of your chest's. Believe me, I would do something now then just wait for it to get worse.

Answer 8

well it sounds like to me you don’t care if its bad or not if u already made the decision to be with him forever but in my opinion he is a very sic man

Answer 9

I don't know what sexual immortality is, I guess this means you will be sexual for ever.

Answer 10

Maybe you can change his mind. Here is what the bible says about homosexuality and sexual immorality.

In Genesis 19:1-29 the cities of Sodom and Gommorah were destroyed because the people were so wicked. The men of the city wanted to have sex with other men. So God's judgement on the city was to destroy it by raining down burning sulfur on Sodom and Gomorrah.

Leviticus 18:22 (speaking to men in Israel) "Do not have sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman; that is detestable."

Leviticus 20:13 "If a man has sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They are to be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads."

Romans 1:26-27 "Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion."

1 Corinthians 6:9 "Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexual offenders...will inhereit the kingdom of God."

1 Corinthians 6:13 "The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body."

1 Timothy 1:8-10 "We know that the law is good if one uses it properly. We also know that the law is made not for the righteous but for lawbreakers and rebels, the ungodly and sinful, the unholy and irreligious, for those who kill their fathers or mothers, for murderers, for the sexually immoral, for those practicing homosexuality, for slave traders and liars and perjurers."