my ex is coming round to drop some stuff off to me and asked if i could be there. When i said i'd rather not she said she'll be out of my hair by tea. The whole thing is she asked to not see me for a while and when i questioned that she replied its not an issue for her but she can understand why i would not want to see her.
The thing is i still want her back and feel like she is playing all cool with me because she knows that. Am i best telling her i wont be there and trying to show her i dont care either? i just want to play my cards as best as i can to keep her guessing a bit too.
2006-09-06 14:31:17 · 15 answers · asked by whitey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would say keep her guesing. act like you dont care either way. i know thats when i usually go for the guy alot more. is when i realize hes not goin for me. so keep her guessing and wondering. she will lie in bed thinkingabout you and youll see results soon.
2006-09-06 14:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by ready4answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you haven't been broken up for very long. Maybe she has got some issues going on, maybe some personal problems. Yeah, I wouldn't try to play her game, just lay it out on table and ask her what the heck is going on. Then figure out if you should move on or try to repair things. If she is the type of girl that likes to play games, it might be best just to move on. If she is having other personal issues, it depends on how much you want to help her work through them. Good luck!
2006-09-06 14:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's just trying to be ***** and get some attention. she just likes the fact that you still want her - it makes her feel good about herself(that someone wants her). she's using you as an ego boost and can prolly read you like a book (that's the only way she could get any satisfaction) get away from her asap if you don't want your feelings stepped all over.
another option is that she always wants what she doesn't have but once she gets it doesn't want it anymore... this happens a lot and turns into a sort of yo-yo that nobody wants to go through. once again man, it doesn't matter which it is, you need to STEP BACK AND MOVE ON.
2006-09-06 14:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by beneaththemangotree12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you both are trying to play games. I would say leave the relationship alone, because if you can't act like mature adults and stop with the mind games, player games, and bull...then you both need to grow up a bit before you try to have a true realtionship. If you don't need to be there then don't. If you need to be there to get the stuff then stay. All the games are for kids.
2006-09-06 14:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her to drop the stuff off
at one of ur friend's house
and say that you'll pick it up from there later
that you wont be acting as if you want her
or if you to really like each other than just get back with her
2006-09-06 14:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on if you want her back or not as to how you handle it. Think about the reasons you would want her back and think about the reasons you would not want her back. Which is greater??? If you decide you might want her back, then be there and see what happens between you. If you don't want her back, don't be there. Good luck.
2006-09-06 14:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by allykitty63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can stay it's your home, just don't touch her even if she touches you for a few weeks. Let her have the space she asked for. Start the relationship from square one. Don't rush things.
2006-09-06 14:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by lady01love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely , tell her your busy and won't be in and she will have to arrange to come back when it suits you,i know its hard not to give into her,it seems to me that shes used to getting her own way,when she sees that your getting on without her ,even if you need to pretend you are,she will change her tune,trust me i know this from experience!! let me know how you get on
2006-09-06 14:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like mind games and trust me, its not going to work, figure out what you want then make it clear.
2006-09-06 14:33:17 · answer #9 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't play games. she's your ex for a reason. move on. let all the feelings you think you have for her go.
2006-09-06 14:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋