I met this girl at School, she seemed rather ignorant. But the more I talked to her the more I liked her. As time went on I finally decided to do something about it so I told her I loved her in french. As time went on we flirted more and more, but there was just something in the way and I couldnt say what I felt. The next quarter I saw her again and stupidly let the words " I miss you" stumble out. So she didnt take it lightly and I figured thats ok but now as time goes on I still can not get over this girl. Every time I see her my heart paces a million miles. And I can not stop thinking about her. I just want to move on with my life and let her move on with hers. She drove me to near insanity just with her presence, I began to cut myself just to try and forget her and I was even hospitalized for talking about suicide. Im usually a rational person and I am not a stalker. My question I pose to everyone is how do I just get along and move on and be happy again? only 20 characters to go.
2006-09-06 14:27:27 · 5 answers · asked by maguathehearteater 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You first have to acknowledge that it's not going to be easy and that it will take a lot of time and a lot of effort. It's not going to happen overnight, but take comfort in the fact that it really is possible to get over someone. It's different for different people. Mostly you should just focus on other things in your life. Immerse yourself in your work or studies, take up a hobby, go out with friends adn family, meet new people, volunteer at a charity, etc. Acknowledge your feelings but don't dwell on them. In time, you'll find your way again.
2006-09-06 14:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by flingbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't trip years ago i went through the same thing I adventually moved on after 4 years of hospitals and depression and self mutalation mental and physical i allowed my self to try again and start differnt and slower with a lot more thought about what i said and did. right now is such a small amount of time in your life dont think in 10 years you''ll even have an issue
around any of this so try not to have a permanent scar on your body it's the only body you will ever have. there gozillion women
2006-09-06 21:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by francine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counseling is the way to go. Involve yourself in other activities
and try socializing with other people. Over time your obsession
will wane and you will be able to move on. Just give yourself
a chance. I wish you luck.
2006-09-06 21:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cutting yorself? Suicide? How is a girl supposed to love you when you act like that? You are going to scare them off doing that stuff. Talk to a dr to find out WHY you are doing this.
2006-09-06 23:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt everything you said is true and if it really is then that just sucks but if its that bad then i don't know what you can do besides staying busy to keep your mind off her
2006-09-06 21:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by augusta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋