HI everyone. here's the problem. i had a crush on a guy last year. but nothing special ever really happen between us. once i told my friend to tell him that there is a girl who likes him without saying my name. and he though that it was immature. but he doesn't know it was me. but anyway, i like him and would want to first start of as friends. but i barely talk to him.... i don't know what to do.. i mean how can i initiate a good friendship with him. i have tried to talk to him before as brief as it may be. but none of those have had an effect.
and also is it true that a guy freaks out when a girl tells him how she feels straight out?
please guys it would be very helpful to hear your answeres.
thank you
2006-09-06 14:18:55 · 6 answers · asked by pat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ummm... well, i don't exactly throw myself at him, actually i get shy around him and i tend not to talk around him...
2006-09-06 14:38:12 · update #1
i also have another question. is ignoring a guy you like a wise thing to do
2006-09-06 14:46:20 · update #2
Dont be discouraged when ur 1st few conversation didnt hv any effect.
Words are like water to the plant, u dont shower ur plant once and expect it to grow from seed to bear fruits in instant.
Have more often casual conversation with him and see how ur friendship grows.
Talk to him like u are his friend, not future wife, and u'll see the result soon!
:)
2006-09-06 14:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first thing you need to do is chill! do not key word here (do not) throw yourself at the guy,it's a turn off, if he only wants to be friends, but if he likes extra attention you give him,you need to go to the dept store,buy some thongs,red,blk work best,now hear me out here, im not saying get naked in front of him, what i'm saying is this.wear some lowrider jeans,along with the thong, act as if you have droped somthing in front of him,then bend over to pick it up.he will see your wearing a thong,and then and Only then! you WILL find out if he wants you!
2006-09-06 14:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys don't freak out when a girl tells him she likes him strait out. at least, none of the guys i know have freaked out...
as for how to get an "in" with him. find out something he likes and if it's something you don't know anything about (sports, art project, etc) this makes it so you spend time with him, and you get a chance to know him.
2006-09-06 14:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by kiss my wookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance. Ease up to him and start talking to him. Go slowly, and let him know you're interested in him.
2006-09-06 14:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating in elementary school is not age appropriate
2006-09-06 14:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....putting someone on the spot is always freaky....but i think you should just talk to him, get to know him first. dont just jump in and say hey, i LOVE you....that is freaky
2006-09-06 14:25:14 · answer #6 · answered by countryisking 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋