I meet this guy, he is sweet and caring, a couple of weeks ago he told one of his friends that I am his girlfriend, we were suposed to get together but I wasn't able to be there for work reasons, he took it well when i explained to him, for the last couple of days I wasn't able to get in touch with him, until today and he was sweet and he said the reason why he didn't call was because he wasn't at his best ( he was upset and he didn't wanted to talk to anybody) so are guys like that?, is he serious or is he just trying to find a pretext? can I get some advice in how to deal with this and at the same time what would guys expect from a girl if you are talking serious about a relationship
thank you for your help
2006-09-06 13:55:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a guy. I've had this exact experience. I met a woman I really enjoyed being with, I felt comfortable around her, we laughed together, very intelligent, driven, etc etc. She had similar issues with work and it always made me very disappointed. I would swallow my disappointment and contact her again but darn, it was difficult. When you want to spend time with a person you really like you get selfish and sort of expect the other person to place everything second and put them first (that's probably what he thinks he would do). On a very very small scale, you broke his heart by not being able to get out of work.
I don't think this is a pretext at all. He was just plain sad and disappointed.
2006-09-06 14:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not guys do have emotions and feelings just like women...I have cried over ex girlfriends and felt sick to my stomach when I thought someone was being unfaithful...it sounds like he was a decent guy, so he probably was just a little hurt by your leaving. Give him time and maybe you guys can be friends, but he may just be heartbroken...
2006-09-06 13:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by O Jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems that this guy likes you too. He seems like an understandable person as well. His excuse seems suitable but, if your not sure try to find out if that's the truth.
2006-09-06 14:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by Luke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him his goals for the next 5 years. If you are not convinced with his answer then you know what to do.
2006-09-06 14:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For goodness sakes ....wait till you've actually gone out on a date before you bust a vein.....take it easy!
2006-09-06 14:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try giving his c o c k a mouth hug! that came from my son-in-law... and he adds....gobble the goop!
2006-09-06 14:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are full of **** and that was a full of **** answer unless he's a lil femanine he was lieing.
2006-09-06 13:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he thinks it was an excuse you were using to blow him off.
or did he just tell you he told his friends thatyou were his girlfriend and not that you guys had sex i would ask that first.
2006-09-06 14:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋