there is a guy whom i work with that i have had feelings for for a while. he has a girlfriend, and as tempting as it is to try and make things work, i cannot do that. he has someone and i respect that and i refuse to be the other woman. i am trying to ignore him and keep my distance, but he goes out of his way to talk to me, which makes it very difficult. what should i do??
2006-09-06 13:26:48 · 3 answers · asked by sunny23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The hardline has to be within you. He may want your friendship and nothing is wrong with that. If he makes a move on you then you will know that you are dealing with a man of less than sterling character. You can then run for the hills.
If you can't find that hard line you should probably space yourself A.S.A.P
Good luck with friendly co-worker!
2006-09-06 13:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how serious he is about his current g/f... he will either tell you about their wedding plans or he'll say he's not sure how he feels about her... his way of saying he's not happy. Maybe he wants to know if you're interested before he breaks up with his g/f. He's trying to get to know you... maybe.
2006-09-06 20:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sugar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have patience - all things pass.
2006-09-06 20:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋