does this make me bi? becuz i have a bf and i really love him.. but i get turned on when i think of doing things with girls or seeing them...helpppppp
2006-09-06 13:17:24 · 21 answers · asked by steff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
way to go girl! don't question what turns you on- go with it! enjoy it!
2006-09-06 13:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by meow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think that it makes you bi. A lot of girls have fantasies like that and are just embarrassed or ashamed to say so. As long as it stays a fantasy and does not become reality, its normal. And if you talk about those fantasies with your man, it will probably make your sex life a lot more interesting. Men love the thought of that, even if you never really do it.
2006-09-06 20:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but it does mean exactly that. you are turned on by girl on girl action. if you think you are bi, then you are. there's nothing wrong with it, regardless of if you are or are not. hell, it'll make it fun for your boyfriend: he's probably turned on by girl on girl action too!
and you people who think bi's just can't chose one or the other, you are seeing in black and white and completely forgetting all the other shades and colors! we did chose one! the one that realizes that if you love a person you love them, regardless of race, class, gender, religion, or anything else that's insignificant like that. if you only date guys or only date girls, aren't you blocking out an entire group of people just based on gender? isn't that the same as blocking them out because of race?
2006-09-07 20:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by eri_mizawa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you.
At this point you are bi curious.
I'm a bisexual male and I've been where you are at one point then I took it to the next level. Which of course was act on my curioustiy.
Just take things slow and be sure what you do is your decision and not someone elses.
2006-09-06 20:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by dont_you_hate_it_when 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with feeling that way!! I think your boyfriend is a very lucky guy and if you want to experiment a little go for it. People don`t like it then just keep it to yourself and this web sight. You will always find the answer your looking for here!! Don`t worry about it!!
2006-09-06 20:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never actually dated a lady who wasn't at least somewhat aroused by the thought of two women making love, if not Bi themselves.
Nothing abnormal from my point of view.
2006-09-06 20:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Feelgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are bi. Have you ever discussed this with your boyfriend? Most guys find it to be a real turn-on!
2006-09-06 20:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not confused babe....and screw what other people tell you. i do the samething. i love my man we have been 2gether for 5 yrs have a 4 yr old son 2gether. yet when me and him are in the bed and we do out 4play...i love to think about us with another girl and all the dirty things he can do to us or me and the other can do together. it is normal. your sharing it with another person who you love and they love you. nothing wrong with that babe
2006-09-06 21:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by debella201 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but I get turned on too so don't feel bad and I am engaged it happens as long as it dosn't affect your normal life don't sweat it.
2006-09-06 20:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by candidworker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think almost anygirl could say the same thing.... I know i can and i am not bi or lesbian
2006-09-06 20:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by Aimee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i get turned on watching girl on girl action
2006-09-06 20:25:13 · answer #11 · answered by melfike06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋