What should my baby's mamma do..when I am staying with her, but she doesnt tell anyone about me. I feel like I dont exist? What's a brotha to do?
2006-09-06 12:57:19 · 12 answers · asked by schlteech 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you two are still in a relationship then it's a serious issue. I don't know if you mean you lvie together but I would definitely say to speak with her. Ask her how you feel.
If you two are no longer in a relationship then she may be trying to start anew and doesn't want people she's talking to or trying to start a relationship that they will have baby daddy drama.
Men feel very insecure when the woman they are seeing or interested in is close to their ex even if it is just a friendship.
In any event the answer to both is to talk to her and clarify your relationship and expectations.
2006-09-06 13:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read a book on how to deal with baby's mamma drama (albeit from the female perspective).
Pay child support and stay the **** away from her, other than your child.
2006-09-06 13:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how did she explain being pregnant and naming the father of her baby?
I'd ask her that if she feels so ashamed of you that she won't tell anybody then why is she with you?
Tell her that if she loves you then she should have no reason to hide it. You were good enough to father her child. Don't let her hide you away, make it obvious that you are together.
2006-09-06 13:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she must be ashamed of you and if that is the case yall need to talk cause communication is the best problem solver good luck:)
2006-09-06 13:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by loveable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay calm she might not have to tell anyone they might just know by her actions i know it hurts but in the long run you will realize when in a conversation deeply things slip your mind. My boyfriend does it to me sometimes but i know he don't mean to he feels everyone already know and i talked to him about it and how i felt so just to the same let her know your feeling.
2006-09-06 13:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by cosmocutie03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u staying w/ ur baby momma?what is the situation between ya'll that she chooses not to tell people about u?u might want to reevalute all that
2006-09-06 13:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by the_kid_doesnt_care 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move out brotha
2006-09-07 01:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she wants you around for something but maybe wants to act like shes single
2006-09-06 12:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them yourself if she dont like it then shes hiding something
2006-09-06 13:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by wilkinson_1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel, introduce yourself to people. make new friends and talk little about her.. :) i guess..
2006-09-06 12:59:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋