that you had someone to listen to you and really care, offer words of encouragement, to want to talk to you, to be with you when no one else seems to want to, to want to only be with you, to just be there for you and to share stuff with, and to tell you good things, and to feel the exact same way?
On days like this, it's the only I want.. or need. Thought about it a lot today and last night, too, I guess.
Anyone else feel the same?
It's a really bad kind of lonely, I'm thinking.
2006-09-06 12:32:10 · 18 answers · asked by J13891 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Please no immature answers.
2006-09-06 12:35:07 · update #1
same way felt here.
2006-09-06 12:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by DisneyLover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have felt that way too. Hang in there. I don't want to sound trite, but things will get better.
I think that there are more lonely people out there than any one of us realizes. Very wierd when you think about it. There is a Beatles song that comes to mind......All the lonely people, where do they all come from...... There are billions of us on the planet, yet we can feel so all alone.
But remember, we are not alone.
Take care, and peace.
2006-09-06 19:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are lonely, I used to feel that way until I met my soul mate now she is all of those things without a doubt. Maybe you just some encouraging friends. I would be glad to offer advice and support if you would like, guaranteed to cheer you up. IvoryAngel@sbcglobal.net
2006-09-06 19:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Southern Comfort 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am totally with you on this.
It would make "our" life so much better to find that someone who deep down listens to what you are saying, maybe not by the words, but know deep what you are at least trying to say.
When two of these people hook up, man oh man - what a life they must have together.
Being lonely sucks big time.
2006-09-06 19:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by Wolf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is always so important to feel needed and loved...and that you are worth listening to...nothing makes you feel worse than when no one has time for you...A friend in need is a friend in deed...there was a reason someone made that line up.....but when all else fails...I pray and I pray to thank the Lord for being there for me, when no one else seems to care...and thank Him and thank Jesus,...then you never walk alone..
2006-09-06 19:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How about a volunteer job? You'll be helping others and yourself-Awesome feeling! there are MANY places to volunteer and it can really open up your eyes (and maybe you'll even meet that someone). Start with www.rmhc.org There might be 1 in your area. Lots of volunteer opportunities with them. Good Luck!!!!
2006-09-06 19:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by PROUDJEW 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I did have someone like that it was my husband. He passed away on June 6th. He had cancer, was diagnosed March 20th. I miss him soooo bad. I just live for my kids now.
Ill be thinking of you. Things will get better for you.
2006-09-10 04:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by crumcake422 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a boyfriend. If he doesn't understand you, at least it'll make you feel good that he wants to be with you.
Or find a question on Yahoo! like, "How are you?" and just answers whatever you feel.
2006-09-06 19:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by she who is awesome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what i actually have a friend who is like that who listens and really cares like Johnny from The Outsiders{my obsession, fav. book ever} buts its great to have her shes my best friend
2006-09-06 19:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a dog
2006-09-06 19:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by Purp_slinger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not really cause i have a very good friend who is always there for me! i hope that you can find someone
2006-09-06 19:35:36 · answer #11 · answered by panda621gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋