I am a Christian girl, but it is SSSSSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOO hard to find a guy who loves the Lord!!! Can anyone help me with idias to where to find a TRUE Christian????!!!!
2006-09-06 12:22:27 · 35 answers · asked by Look great Hunting it! 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Relax, God has this worked out for you already! If you think you have to stress about finding a christian guy then you're not really trusting in God that he will have it play out the way he intended. Stop looking and one day prince charming will come! I promise! God gave me my perfect match and if it is his will for you to be married one day he will bless you as well. God Bless!
2006-09-06 12:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by lees girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you live in the US, it's very unlikely you even know the meaning of being a true Christian. Sorry to tell you that, but Christian tradition has been morphed into something that barely resembles Christianity at all nowadays. Christianity in this country has been moving to a form of religion-based nationalist extremism, which is unfortunate.
Going to Church and singing "Praise The Lord" doesn't make you one. True Christians never call themselves as such. This is because doing so is an act of arrogance.
Besides, if you are a true Christian, then you should know that it is your cross to carry. It was never meant to be easy, ever. And that carries over to dating.
Now, if your concept of a TRUE Christian is a person who mimics you at Church, then good luck.
But if you mean somebody who may not believe in the same religious practices you do, and yet:
1- respects you
2- honors you
3- loves you
4- works hard
5- is decent
6- pursues an education or trade
7- has a good hearth
Wouldn't such a person have enough qualifications for being a good mate? After all, some the biggest sinners are the ones that go to Church regularly... and you know that.
2006-09-06 12:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by elnyka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking in the right places? And remember, he is out there looking for you too. Does he have to be Christian or what I call a good man with strong moral values and ethics. If it were the latter then your search would end a lot sooner. Such a man would allow Christ into his/your house.
Good luck.:-)
2006-09-06 12:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open up your mind. All of the bad people who harmed me and my friends were Christians. Not all Christians are evil, thankfully, but do keep an open mind. Just because one seemingly adheres to a religious faith doesn't mean he is a good man.
2006-09-06 12:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God works in mysterious ways. He also wants you to be happy. I know that he asks each of us to surround ourself with good wholesome people; he does not expect us to be perfect. I happen to live in the cesspool of anti-religious sentiment...San Francisco...and I have found someone amazing who is although Orthodox (myself Catholic), equally believes in the love of God. The best thing to do is look for good people who add to you, not detract. Although Religion may be of utmost importance, the guy doesn't have to be religious to be a good honest man. The best thing you can do is date, it is healthy and will help you later in life with relationships. One should not be hurt during dating, it is like a trial period. I don't know what a TRUE Christian means; just look for a good man who had morals, aspirations, ethics and a future.
2006-09-06 12:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by BMacK83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going out on a limb with guessing that your young. statistics show that people between the ages of 18-35 are most likely not going to church. Especially males.
Be patient. think of it this way, God wants you all to Himself. After all, He is a jealous God. Right now I would just focus on Him first. Don't let anybody or anything stand in your way of walking with the Lord right now. Learn trough prayer and fasting how to walk according to the Spirit and live in righteousness and in truth. After time, once God knows that your completely dedicated to serve Him over any person (including yourself) He will fulfill the desires of your heart. It can be quick or it could take a long time, the choice is up to you. How much are you willing to sacrifice for Jesus?
2006-09-06 12:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by stpolycarp77 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If it is important to you that he is Christian you should probably see who else (guy) attends your church that might be single. Is there any activities related to church that you participate in? Like community fair or something like this? Maybe get more involved in those. All I'm trying to say - go to places where he might go. If you're going to church you're likely to meet a Christian. If you're going to dances you're likely to meet a dancer. That's the point I'm trying to make.
2006-09-06 12:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe every one loves Him. The things is, they are not so showy, they just keep it thier mind. Attend some christian fellowship (ie. prayer meeting, prayer rally, etc.). On the other way, I suggest that, you have to wait till the right man on the right time comes to you, don't be in a hurry.
2006-09-06 12:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by Sam X9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats "ideas" . :) Perhaps dont try to find a guy and maybe someone will come along who goes to your church or a youth convention with your church. The Lord has him already picked out for you, you just have to wait for his timing.
2006-09-06 12:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by yeppers 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God has a special plan for you, we usually find someone when we are not looking, don't give up, trust in The Lord, I believe God will answer your question.
2006-09-06 12:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by bryton1001 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋