I would like 2 know please I am 21 and only have ever had 1 girlfriend that cheated on me. I go 2 night clubs often and my mates pull quite often. They tell me that women are gagging for sex as much as men are you just have to know how to talk to them. Is this true, am I just not saying the right words?????
2006-09-06 12:07:58 · 16 answers · asked by geoffrey2312 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well your mates are true in one thing. I'm a girl and I just want sex not love. Long story. anyways, I think you should just play it cool. Don't look nervous or desperate. I don't know exactly what's wrong cuz I haven't observed your actions but act as if you are not nervous or looking desperatly. Be fun loud. Or you could dress like a bad boy and act like you don't give a damn. Or be mysterious. Dark and mysterious. That'll totally catch alot of girls. good luck. Ohh.. and try and have fun
2006-09-06 12:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so young --- you have plenty of time to get to know what love is. Night clubs are not a good place to look for serious partners in life. I know you are a guy, not a girl but I would still give the same advice --- don't be too easy. Some girls are awful nowadays. You don't know what you could get yourself into if you are too casual or careless about these things. There are all sorts, just like men. Some can be just so vicious and manipulative and they make life hell for you if you are unlucky enough to meet someone like this. Give yourself time to learn to distinguish good from bad and you'll no longer be unlucky in love.
2006-09-06 19:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you're after is sex and that comes straight across you might as well go and pay for it as you'll never get anywhere.
Yes girls like sex just as much as guys but you're friends are right, you need to know who to talk to us. Walking up to one and saying something like 'I'm gagging for a shag, how about you?" will probably get you a black eye. Have a conversation for the sake of the conversation, if she's interested she'll talk to you - take it from there - WITHOUT an agenda - believe me we know when you're only after one thing. If she's interested in jumping your bones she'll let you know, if not consider it practise!
2006-09-06 19:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by weatherwax1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, ask yourself what kind of woman you are looking for. If you like the real nice ones, i dont think clubs are the places to go. I mean, certainly there are tons of decent women who go to clubs....but certainly, they arent up for pulling.
you are not unlucky in love. if you are decent looking your chances of getting a woman is as good as the other.
good looking guys normally get the first advantage. But the question is will they be able to sustain the conversation and keep it interesting. women are smart you see. They will easily know if a man is depthless. So practice your conversation skills. Be natural..Don't over think and overdo things..keep it simple and you will be rolling...oh, try not to look desperate!
2006-09-06 19:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by Ron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking for love or sex? I know it seems like 21 is old enough to be experienced. It isn't. Not trying to insult you honey but you need to set priorities and give yourself some time. Your friends are not in love relationships, they're just getting laid. The one who cheated on you was one loser in a whole world of women out there.
2006-09-06 19:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be silly, and your friends are fuzzy too by the way (no offense). Wait for the right girl to come along before you settle down, why go for the first girl that comes your way just because your 'mates' are having fun in the bedroom or whatever. There are plenty of girls out there, why not wait for the right one?
2006-09-06 19:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur Q said unlucky in love, then u went on and mentioned not gettin enough sex, which is it
ur only 21, u dont need to settle down n fall in love yet, i did it and it all went wrong, go out n enjoy ur self, but if u are lookin for love, then treat a woman with respect, dont go out lookin for it, it often comes when ur least expectin it
why not get a sex buddy if all ur interested in is sex
2006-09-06 19:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by tilomilo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not unlucky in love hun! You think you are because your mates are going and and pulling anything, where as you dont! you dont know it, but love will smack u in the face when you least expect it! And it will last longer than all your mates flings because you waited for it! good things come to those who wait my man! x
2006-09-06 19:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by Totty D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He that can have patience can have what he will.
Franklin
A noble person attracts noble people,
and knows how to hold onto them.
Goethe
‘Tis easy enough to be pleasant,
When life flows along like a song;
But the man worthwhile
Is the one who will smile
When everything goes dead wrong.
Ella Wheeler Wilcox
2006-09-06 19:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luck has nothing to do with it.
Yes, it's all about words. Women will read all sorts of things into what you say. It's a mystery to me...
2006-09-06 19:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋