I've been on here for about the last 3 months trying to assess where I fit in with regards to the battle of the sexes. I have been asking many pointed, loaded questions, trying to figure out.........what my risk is.
My ex-wife and her kids have been out of the house for 3 months, there's no custody, financial, or material battles at all anymore. All rights to those types of things have been signed away.
Basically, I've learned:
1) I need to work on myself
2) I need to not get physically intimate too soon with future dates
3) More time needs to elapse (9 months with my last situation) but more importantly better questions need to be asked before I move in with or get married to another woman.
4) I need to figure out what I can't live with. [That's what I've been doing at answers.yahoo.com, and too much, I'd say.]
I've been doing some dating lately, but I have concerns.
Basically, if I don't have anyone move in with me, is my risk of being taken advantage of substantially reduced?
2006-09-06 12:03:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh Honey, I commend you on your efforts, but lets take this one step at a time. Slow down and take a deep breath. You just came out of a ---- year marriage and your all ready talking about moving someone in with you. WOW I know it is really hard to find someone that you are physically attracted to and mentally compatible with, but you really should feel this person is the one you want to share your life with before you move them in with you. As far as being taken advantage of, no one can protect use from that. All we can do is take our time and try to get to know that person as much as possible before exposing to much of our hearts. Good Luck.
2006-09-06 12:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by romeo16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are correct. Why move-in with anyone unless you are planning on remarrying again? People tend to start taking advantage of a situation when they move-in. Besides they also feel the need to have certain rights as well living in the same house. Next time you marry you may want to live seperately. If my ex had done that we might still be married.
2006-09-06 12:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live alone then i guess you would have alot less to worry about...come and go as you please,,ect,,,but if you miss the closeness and the wanting to come home to someone everyday then you should live with someone. i think 9 months is too soon though. go through all the emotions you need to before you even try and make a decision like that. personally i never lived with anyone up until 2 yrs ago,,,,and i needed that in my life so bad,,,and now im loving it. but for you i think you need to take more time before you can answer this question. ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR HEART,,,,U ONLY HAVE ON ELIFE TO LIVE,,,dont judge one bad relationship on the rest of your life.
2006-09-06 12:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you'd be taking advantage of them, wanting an instant wifey. Moving in is serious business, it's not something you get into after date number 3.
2006-09-06 12:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess
2006-09-06 12:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋