So I have this best friend in the entire world who is practically attached to my hip. Her ex boy came back from a year of traveling around the world & is back in the state with her to settle down. He says he loves her but he doesnt do anything for her. He wont pick her up to hang out, she has to take the bus. He ditches her over & over again to smoke, then treats her horribly while he is with her. She talked to him about how he made her feel & he used the excuse that he pushes her away so she will want him more. He thinks that is how she works. She tells him to stop, & then he sweeps her off her feet for a week or 2 then goes back to the shmuck he was. He says he wants to marry her & he loves her but yet he also wants a threesome before the relationship starts(without her)...
I keep telling her to get rid of him because he makes her cry more then he makes her smile. I love her to pieces and it kills me to see her hurt like that What do you guys think?? Is there ne thing I can do?
2006-09-06 11:57:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sit here down in a private place and tell her hoe you feel...she is obiously nieve, duh she is only 19, ask if she is happy in the relationship and tell her to list all the positives and negatives in the relationship. If you really love her you'll keep being her freind and respect her decision, and if you want to...tell her how you feel... good luck
2006-09-06 12:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by "Chanel-o" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a piece of dirt and she is incredibly stoopid for putting up with it! For you.... walk away NOW!!! you are contributing to the problem by supporting her enabling her to continue the "relationship". If you want to help then tough love is needed!!
Tell her unless she dumps him you cannot stand by and watch him hurt her because it hurts you and drains your emotions so when she sees sense, she can call you. Hard but it will work!
2006-09-06 19:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sluttty McSluttt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the guy sounds very immature, hell I would love to date a 19 year old young lady !
But seriously, she should get rid of him
2006-09-06 19:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by Baghdad Pete ! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he sounds like an asshole
2006-09-06 19:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋