Ok I have a friend and I have known him for 5 years and now he likes me. We have been talking and I think I am starting to like him but I don't want to go with him because I think it will make our frienship weird and plus I have nothing to learn about him because I basically know everything about him. He is like my best friend. What am I suppoesed to do?
2006-09-06 11:45:31 · 14 answers · asked by winniethepooh4991 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ON MAN THATS HARD BUT IF YOU VALUE YOUR FRIENDSHIP MORE THAN WHAT YOU THINK YOU LIKE HIM THEN STAY FRIENDS!!! OR MAYBE TELL HIM YOU NEED MORE TIME TO SEE IF YOU HAVE ANY FEELINGS FOR HIM AS MORE THAN A FRIEND!!!! MAYBE A RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU KNOW THE PERSON GOOD ISN'T SO BAD BECAUSE ALONG THE ROAD MAYBE YOU WONT GET SO MANY BUMPS!!!
2006-09-06 11:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by GigglesGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes knowing a lot about someone before going out with them is a good thing. Me and my BF (of 4 years and we are engaged) were friends before we started going out not best friends but good friends. It was good knowing him because we were more comfortable with each other. There is a saying I like 'It takes 6 months to get to know someone, then it takes 6 more to get to know the real person'. But I think you are the only one who knows what to do deep down. Good luck with it :0)
2006-09-06 18:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do exactly what your heart is telling you. If dating him doesn't feel right. Then don't. Don't put him through all that.
If you really do like him and would like to see where things can go, talk to him about it.
Dating might not make your friendship weird. It could even make it stronger. My boyfriend is my best friend.
2006-09-06 18:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your gutt instinct always!
I date my best friend and our relationship went sour but I have a beautiful 5y.o daughter. Personally I wouldn't do it simply BC i lost 1 friend like this already but some ppl marry their best friends
2006-09-06 18:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Mom2two Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is not "What am I supposed to do?" The question you should be asking yourself is "What do I want to do?"
It's all up to you - don't worry about him - do you want a relationship with this guy? If you don't then stop worrying about it and get on with your life.
WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO?
FP
2006-09-06 18:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep him as a best friend. Dont lose your best friend because you got into a relationship with him.
2006-09-06 18:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep the relationship just friends, then don't let it go any farther.
2006-09-06 18:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i once tryed going out with my bestfriend and after i dumped her she never talked to me for like 5months. but then i asked her to be friends and she was cool.
2006-09-06 18:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by aaronwinner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it. Yall practically r a couple
2006-09-06 18:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont go out with him. I have made that mistake.. and trust me you dont want to make that mistake. it ruins everything
2006-09-06 18:48:09 · answer #10 · answered by francesrenneboog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋