There is a girl that i LOVE and shes nice and kind and funny and BEAUTIFUL (just to name a few things) and shes so wonderful i cant even descibe her and shes wonderful and beatiful and i make constant eye contact and so does she and i don't care what anyone says (i do care, just listen) or if you say im too young but i know for a FACT that shes "the one" and were both christain and were both in ROTC and ROTC get to do PT (physical training) and were in PT together and at the end someone said something to the whole class it was something like "if you wanna lose weight blah blah blah blah blah" (no, she not fat shes skinny and beautiful and im skinny too) and then someone else said if you wanna lose weight get a boyfriend and then someone said "*cough* (her name)" and we both looked at we each other at like the same time. and theres a military ball coming up in february and i want to ask her out but i dont know how. GIVE ME AS MUCH ADVICE AS YOU POSSIBLE CAN. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-06 11:26:47 · 32 answers · asked by JesusFreak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and, yes i know her, she's been my friend for like a month.
2006-09-06 14:53:32 · update #1
Wow it's cool to see guys freak out like this.I never knew they did.Ok moving on anyway I think you should just ask her.From what I hear I think that even if she said No the only reason why is because she already has a date or that your too young but thats doesnt matter give her the but Ashton Kultcher and Demi More thing.jk but really ask her to the dance maybe she likes you and remember it's a disgrace to some people if the girl has to ask the guy so i mean ask her.Then you have to tell us how itended up.But if your heart is telling you to do it just do it
2006-09-06 11:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ASK HER OUT BEFORE YOU LOSE HER if you have a chance. She's probably wondering what the heck is wrong with her or you that you won't ask her out.
Why are you even listening to these whiney-**s losers behind you yakking? Turn together, SMILE PRETTILY and turn back around unbothered.
How to ask her? Invite her for a walk sometime, say to exercise and get to talking about something about beauty or something not silly such as other people, make it personal. You know, likes and dislikes, the view, the sun, etc. Then just "ask" trust me if she wants to go to the Ball, she's waiting to be asked!!!!!
2006-09-06 11:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down. Don't worry so much. Be yourself its ok to be nervous just be confident in yourself not a jerk confident but one that says hey im not scared of being rejected which u wont by the way you talk. You will be fine Just remember this. "The choas of the life will spin a million times but as long as you keep your eye on your goal you will not get dizzy and confused. " Catherine Jenete Black
2006-09-06 11:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by Krazybi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay listen... It sounds like you both like each other. If you keep putting it off..either someone else will ask her or she wont go. I say next time you see her...hand her a rose and ask her to go to the ball with you. I bet she would love to go...and you 2 will have a great time! Let us know how it goes!! Good Luck!!
2006-09-06 11:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by YEP THAT'S ME.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the sounds of things you maybe need to stop taking what ever it is thats making you that hyper....come back down to the ground & breathe deeply.
You may be able to work something then by re-writing the question in some way that others can understand.
Good luck :-)
2006-09-06 11:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by suzairspliff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, if I was this girl I would be completly flattered!! You really seem to like her and think the world of her. She would be lucky to have you. I would for sure ask her to the dance. If on the odd chance she does say no, just make sure not to stop talking with her and it wont have a chance to get akward. Good Luck!
2006-09-06 11:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by Curious 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It seems this girl really likes you too. Just ask her to the ball I highly doubt she is going to say 'no!' She probably already knows you like her. Just be confident and don't do any silly little boy things around her and you will be just fine.
Best of Luck.
2006-09-06 11:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply walk up to her, take her hand and walk a distance away from the crowd of people, look into her eyes and tell her how much you'd love it if she were your date for the dance. Then straight out ask her ' Will you honor me by attending the dance as my date'
Go for it my friend! not a lot of guys like u in the world, she's lucky to have u
2006-09-06 11:30:35 · answer #8 · answered by jelli_bean_36 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is try to get close to her before the ball, don't rush it, you have MONTHS, when you feel it's right(make sure it's close enough to the ball that she won't get bored of the idea, but not so close she could be taken) and then ask her when the time is right! Or just try to ask her out then she will def go with you.
2006-09-06 11:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by basketballguy192 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!!!!!! sounds like you really like this girl, go for it! She could defintaly be the one adn dont let people tell you diffrent or make you think diffrent, cause when i met my husband i just had that feeling and i just instantly fell in love with everything bout him and everyone said it was something that would never happen, well were still proving them wrong today as we are married and have a wonderful beautiful daughter and happy family. go for it and i hope that it works out for you!!!!
2006-09-06 11:31:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋