Ok I met her a few week ago at a friends house an i feel in love just like that, but I come to find out that she doesnt even live in the same state! she is moving here at the end of the year. she use calls me all the time untill one of her friend that live here told her that i have a G/F (I Dont) but now she stoped calling an wont answer my calls. An I cant get her off my mind what should i do?
2006-09-06 11:16:18 · 24 answers · asked by URDAWG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find another one! Best solution
2006-09-06 11:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The fact that she used to call you all the time shows that she likes you alot. And the fact that she is rejecting you after hearing some rumours shows that she is jealous cos she likes you. So why should you try to get her off your mind.
I suggest that you be persistent to win her back. It doesn't matter whether it is love at first sight so long as you two can click well after that. So don't give up. Find ways to explain to her. Or get the person who spread the rumours to clarify with her. I'm sure she will accept you only if you can persist.
Try and try and try... Even if you are unsuccessful, at least there is a story to tell at your old age.
2006-09-06 18:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by dolphin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know who the friend is that lied about you having a girlfriend? If you do than I would start by confronting the friend. After that this whole thing will be easier to fix. Maybe you could get one of her friends (that wouldn't lie about stuff) that you know to help you reach her, so that you can make her see you don't have a girlfriend. Good Luck!!! You seem like I really nice guy, so I hope this all works out for you!!! Hope I answered your question!!!
2006-09-06 18:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jillian D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frist clam down she's probulary just thinking about if you really have a GF and she's in the stage of asking herself if she'll keep on likeing you. just wait and find some other way of contacting her like email, myspace, and um maybe letters?!?!
and u can't get her out of ur mind becasue i'm thinking u love her too much and u could always talk to ur friends too.
2006-09-06 18:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by laurad_16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok. if she's meant for you,then she will give you a chance. Doesn't matter you have a gf or not, it's not like you're married. Why don't you go to their state, then you'll see if you'll still have the same feelings or not.
2006-09-06 18:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by heavensent143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are two things that you could do.
1. contact your crush's friend and ask her to tell your crush that you really don't have a gf.
2. wait the year till she comes down and tell her yourself
if you choose number two, the real question is. is she worth the wait?
2006-09-06 18:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by thee wojc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't stop thinking about her.
Two choices:
1. Don't give up. Be patient. Hopefully, you'll get another chance.
2. Give up. Be haunted with the nagging doubt.
2006-09-06 18:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by I'm alive .. still 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try leaving her a message or sending her a letter explaining how things REALLY are...maybe she feels the same way and is just upset that you arent available..
when she knows you are or you get some space..things should be okay.
good luck
2006-09-06 18:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by couture♥girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her an email. Tell her you miss her phone calls. Tell her you are single and hate that she got the wrong impression about you.
2006-09-06 18:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask her friend that told her that why the **** she toled her that you have a gf. and then tell her to call her back and say that you don't, and make her do it on speaker phone!!!!!
2006-09-06 18:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by Go Wildcats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find that friend and beat 'em up!!! hahaha no just kidding don't. call her and leave a message....tell her the truth. say how much you miss her and that you ahve such strong feelings toward her.
2006-09-06 18:18:58 · answer #11 · answered by christinaz22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋