there's this person i've had my eye on for about a year. i can't take my eyes off this person. i want to go out with this person but i can't muster up the courage to ask. how do i ask when i'm afraid to.
2006-09-06 11:09:24 · 13 answers · asked by thee wojc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't be afraid. confidence is very sexy. just do it.
2006-09-06 11:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by bjsmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you afraid that this person won't like you back when you make your confession to them and it will make you look like a fool for spilling your guts? Why don't you approach this person and ask them to hang out just casually, as friends. When you guys meet up for a drink or coffee or whatever, that's a chance to see if this person really likes you. If this person really likes you then he/she would ask you out again that night. If that person doesn't ask, then just be glad that you didn't tell this person that you had a crush on this person.
Lol, the first guy said that this question has been asked many times. How would you know that? This guy obviously visits the singles/dating category quite frequently. What a loser.... he spends way too much time in front of the computer looking at dating questions. You moron, don't you have better things to do?
2006-09-06 11:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by pureessence 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its been a year and you still haven't mustered up; any courage to tell the person how you feel . You must not want the person bad enough. get a grip . talk. tell. be out right and say how and what you feel. you have wasted a year by being silent don't waste any more by being dumb.
2006-09-06 11:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to up the courage and just ask! the worse they can say is no which isn't bad. dont pass the opportunity by and later on regret not asking cause think what will happen when you do.. im in the same boat as you but im suppose to be telling him that i love him now that is something to be really nervous about.
2006-09-06 11:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by Andi21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of just rushing into things ...(i know its been a year but...) try talking to him as anormal person dont think of him as a crush then...
start flirting and then get a little more comfortable and then in a cute little way tell him you like him....
you dont need to rush telling him...just take it slowly
if its a "he-needs-to-know-right-now" type of thing...then have someone else tell him...
if youre not comfortable with that then write him a note and find his locker and put it in there...
or let him guess write him notes about who you are-let him figure it out-and leave the notes everywhere (but just so he reads them ) he'll think thats super hot!!
good luck
2006-09-06 11:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by girlzrule1221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask yourself, "what's the worst that could happen?" If you are willing to accept the consequences, then you go for if and tell them... if you're not willing, then you ask yourself would you be better off if you would or wouldn't say anything, when you have your answer, you tell! Simple, right?
2006-09-06 11:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by J j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to the first person. what an a s s.
he's probably like 45 years old, that's why he hates teenagers. they probably call him s h it face.
ANYWAY
i have the same problem
but good luck to you
we're both kinda hanging in there, huh?
2006-09-06 11:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hasn’t this question been asked and answered like 500 times already? Why do we have to endure reading these repetitive recycled moronic questions? Is there some contest going on to see how many times the Answers community can ask the same idiotic question?
I thought school has already started again - can't wait for the Migration Of The Idiot Teenagers! Don’t you little morons have homework to complete?
2006-09-06 11:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
settle down drsteve, can't you see this person's in love!!!! But yeah, same for me, i was afraid, but i got the courage, she turned me down, and i was heart broken, but i'm still after her, ahh, she means sooo much to me, lol just do it, get it off your chest
2006-09-06 11:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by Franky Tank Runner 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask the person
2006-09-06 11:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
act, think later. just go ahead and ask
2006-09-06 11:12:50 · answer #11 · answered by scharfie528 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋