2006-09-06 10:53:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys are very black and white while girls are varied shades of gray. You can flirt, tease, do whatever you want but chances are that while your wasting time doing that, he's looking for a girl who will say, "I LIKE YOU". What harm could come from just coming out and saying that you like him? He may not share the same feelings? Yeah, possibly, but isn't it better than doing all that other crap for a couple of weeks... maybe a month and then finding out? I think so. You're not 12! Tell him!
2006-09-06 11:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't sure about a guy liking you back than what you should do is try to get someone else to casually find out about it for you. Make sure that it is someone you both really trust. Then after that you should wait 2 or 3 weeks before telling him. That way he won't think you wanted to know in the first place. But if you want to know something even better to do than just tell him. If you like him than he is obviously a good person, right? What good people do you know that would look down on you for having strong feelings for someone? I know that it can be hard to do... but if you don't feel so hot about this than try the other idea I had first. I understand that this can be hard to deal with. I wish you luck. I know this will work out for you. Hope I answered your question.
2006-09-06 11:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jillian D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask urself atleast thousand times if u really like/luv him. If u've got that feeling truly n deeply rooted in ur heart then I guess u must go for it. Try makin him feel the same way by caring 4 him the way u want him to care 4 u n makin him feel gud n gr8 in whichever way he wud luv to feel.Infact this will give a pleasure to u in makin ur loved ones feel gud n ofcourse u'll get a hint whether he has the same feelings for u by that time. For true love a li'l wait doesnt matter!!
2006-09-06 11:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by winterblossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know unless you go for it. If he doesn't feel the same way at least you got it out in the open. Cancel out all of the negative responses you think you may get and focus on what's real.
I say if you feel that way, lay it out there. People play to many headgames nowadays. If he doesn't like you will that automatically stop your feelings for him? Just be real with yourself. And then it won't matter if he doesn't like you back.
2006-09-06 11:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by aQTinMVny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking how to tell a guy you like hime when your not sure if he likes you too? The only way you will ever know is to flirt.
2006-09-06 10:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have that same problem and the guy never seems to answer the question. anyways u just tell him u like him dont be afraid i was afraid but then i just did it and it wasnt hard after all anyways good luck!!! peace~~**
2006-09-06 11:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by flirting with him and see what kind of reaction you get. That will tell you if he is interested. If things go will you wont have to tell him.
2006-09-06 11:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by romeo16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to tell him until you are ready. Just get to know him and spend time together until the time is right.
2006-09-06 10:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, try asking your guy friends who this guy likes and what his opinion of you is. Then if he likes you, tell your guy friends to urge him to ask you out (or something).
2006-09-06 10:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont try and tell him then you will never know how he feels.so just sit him down ans ask him how he feel about you because you have strong feelings for him.good luck.
2006-09-06 10:57:32 · answer #10 · answered by bigmomma s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋