his name, identity, nationality, status, everything! we have fun though a smoke n that & a bit of jiggy. he doesnt want anything serious with me, but wont leave me alone when i try to cut him off...wats wrong with this guy?
2006-09-06 10:53:06 · 21 answers · asked by LUCKY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh come on and get real here - buddies? Darling he's getting his end off, no strings attached whilst being allowed to be a fruit cake and then playing you (which you are whole heartedly allowing) like a puppet - IT'S CALLED CONTROL - he's got it and you've given it to him with both hands.
Go get some friends that are playing with the full deck of cards on this planet - causal sex is fine as long as you're getting as much from it as the other person and the two of you are on the same wave lenght, fine but HELLO you're nothing more than an amusement for this bloke when he feels like it - what the f**k (no pun intended) do you get out of this arrangement - if all you want is a smoke and some causal sex there's any number of men you can meet who would be happy to obligue and who are NOT a sandwich short of a picnic.
when you say won't leave you alone, do you mean he calls once and you give in? then you're the problem not him and you know the answer to that one
if you mean you cut all ties and 2 months down the line there are still 40messages a day on your phone and he turns up everywhere you are then that's serious **** and you need to get his friends to call him off, failing that get the police to sort it and STAY AWAY from him.
2006-09-06 12:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by weatherwax1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh i totally aggree with Manonthestreet1............. take a step back and look at your self here tooo, every one makes mistakes and get carried away when the craic is good, but if hes a full time liar, he'll never change dats a problem with him, he dont know any different and probaly dont realise he's even doin it and if you catch him out on a lie he'll make light of it and convince you he's been kidding all this time.....
once a liar always a liar
move on ...... hope u using condoms!
:)
2006-09-06 18:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by polly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hes hiding something, and doesn't want to get to personal or committed. Get shot of him. This may sound a bit harsh, but sounds like your convenient
2006-09-06 18:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by alex p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Errr, you need to make it really clear you don't want him around and stick to it if you're really worried about him. If he bothers you get a restraining order... Of course there's something wrong with him if he lies all the time
2006-09-06 18:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by seaside_girl_03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What;s wrong with HIM? You're casually fcuking a pathological liar and you want to know what's wrong with him? NOTHING'S wrong with him: he's smoking weed and banging some chick with no string attached and she always takes him back. He's the smart one!
2006-09-06 17:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, pathological liar is not a regular condition or state of mind
2006-09-06 17:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is USING you he wont want to let you go as its easy sex. As for his lies have you thought he has a girlfirend or wfe maybe ? You need and deserve a decent man.
2006-09-06 18:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by princess s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well Hello ?? he likes u in bed and ofcourse wont let u go .. but if this is realy really serious .. then try call police .. or justwait for more ansewrs !
2006-09-06 17:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by sandras 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you should stop allowing this type of relationship. It is kinda demented. You dont have to have sex with anyone you dont want to.
2006-09-06 17:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by vanman8u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was a f*ck for him to start off with, but now he wants more?
He might have come addicted to you?
2006-09-06 18:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by Amazing Magenta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋