Help With a girl part 2?

Question

i really like this girl and how do i ask her out i am very shy and i need help desperatly i hope you guys and girls can help she dosent have a cellphone help me please

thanks for the feedback guys

Answer 1

Or, you could simply go out with her and simply skip the asking part?

Answer 2

First, don't assume that too much is at stake with your request for a date. In fact, if this is a new experience you might consider this a practice-run. If she does not agree, then you will have learned from the experience. If she agrees, that just tops it off.

Girls will respond best to you if you are relaxed when you ask. It also will help if you have something fun planned that both of you enjoy. Can you do some research and find out what she enjoys? Movies are often a safe/first date because no one is put on the spot to talk too much.
But some kind of activity planned will help. Another great idea is to consider three options and ask her which she would prefer.

Start out the conversation as though you were asking a friend to join you for an activity. This will take away some of the apprehension and awkwardness. Romantic relationships are usually built an a close friendship, so start there!

Finally, when asking, give her an out. Don't pin her down by saying something like "What are you doing Saturday night?" I would suggest this "I would enjoy getting together with you for a movie, or dinner, or some other (list your planned ideas). I wonder if that interests you sometime next weekend? If she seems hesitant,speak up and say "If that is not a good time, we can plan something in the future". This way you are not setting yourself up for a rejection and she will have the time to ponder.

If a girl says "no", it may be that she is shy too, so don't take it personally. It takes guts to say yes to a date!

Good luck!

Answer 3

There are several ways in which to ask her out but you need to try and be creative to the situation. The first question you have to ask of yourself is does she know who you are? If she knows your name and at least something about you try the following

1. Have someone deliver her a cup of coffee (make sure she likes coffee) with an invitation to go to dinner or lunch or for a drink
2. If she likes movies sent her one ticket and a note for a new upcoming movie and tell her you would like to buy the popcorn.

Get the idea?

Now if this girl does not know you at all - do not try the above methods because you will scare her. You stated that you are very shy, and if she does not know you and you can not bring yourself to talk with her get a couple that you know to invite her to a small get together where you will be at and then you will have to at least say hello.

Good Luck

Answer 4

first are you already friends with her? Does she know who you are? if not then you need to try to make sure she notices you, not in a silly way mind you but knows you are around. Now if you are already friends then personally I would ask her if she wanted to go...pick an event, NOT A MOVIE! movies are the worst first date thing you could ever think of, now mind you she does not have to think it is a date when you ask her out in fact it might make it easier on you if she thinks when you ask her that you are asking only as a friend however you need to pick a place romantic, such as I once had a friend agree to go out as friends then once we were in the car went got coffee then got her to agree to go walk on the beach and talk. So my advice, ask her out more as a friend then by saying "hey, wanna go out" but then take her out on a date even when she thinks your just friends, hopefully by the end of the night you will have romanced her and the next time she'll want it to be a date. Good luck

Answer 5

just do this go and talk with her if she acepts she is interested in you
but if she says no well that is that is not recomended to deal with it okay just ask her and be normal dont pretend anything because things can get wrong just wait for the moment and dont be shy imagine if you want to be with a girl that is millonaire and you are poor okay and you want to be with her and you dont have the courage to do it and then in a flash other guy do that before you then you lose the oportunity what are you gonna do think about it
you have to use the time welll remember the time cannot be get it back again

Answer 6

well first of all, make sure she knows u exist. u cant just walk up to a girl u havent even talked to yet, cuz shell think u like her for the way she looks or somtn. then when u become good friends, u can ask her out to a movie or to hang out with u and some of ur friends. then after that u can ask her out.

Answer 7

you just need to work up your self confidence. it doesn't matter that she doesn't have a cell phone. that could be good. just be yourself around her and you'll become more comfortable to ask her out. when you do, do it in person...even though it's really hard to do that sometimes, you'll feel so much better after(if she says yes haha). don't ask her out online or over the phone or anything. that's the worst. if you want to be with her then you should be able to talk to her in person about anything! i hope this helps! good luck!

Answer 8

Don't be shy it's either a yes or no answer. Prepare yourself for rejection because thats part of LIFE. Don't ever let a woman know that your shy. Your opening yourself up to get used.
p.s.
Dont buy that cell phone. She will use it for other men that she is digging.

Answer 9

Be a secret admirer. Send her an e mail on a new acount. Leave a note on her door step with a flower. Be romantic. Slowly slowly she will fall for you and if you are a good guy she will be yours.

Good luck
L

Answer 10

Take her to a place where no one is really watching and just tell her that you like her, want to get to know her better, and would like to spend more time with her. Then ask her out.

Good luck

Answer 11

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