2006-09-06 10:34:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is really up to you and your boyfriend. I would really talk to him about it. Make sure though before you allow it that hes "in it" for the long haul. I went through MANY "dad's" when I was a kid and I had a broken heart with my mom every time one left. I would hate for anyone else to go through that.
2006-09-06 10:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly you easily have a reason to difficulty approximately this little female! i might have CPS huge sort available. next time she's over you could ask her if there is somebody living house and in case you should chat to her mommy/daddy and notice what she says if she says they don't seem to be living house or she would have the ability to't pass in... then call CPS. That the girl seems happy, doesnt fairly propose she's being taken care of precise at living house, each thing you describe sounds lots like overlook. Your accountability as a mom and as a instructor is to call the government. they are going to check out the priority thoroughly and that they are going to choose, and doubtless there's a relative who's able to look after her, yet regardless you have an obligation to document them. I wouldnt confer with the mother -a) she could be mad at you and not enable the girl to play including your babies or she might even circulate away -because of the fact which you're saying she's renting the living house..
2016-10-14 09:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion this is up to your daughter. It sounds like in her eyes she feels he has earned it. You need to make sure it is something that he is also ok with. One thing that grabbed my attention is boyfriend make sure it is seriouse first if not dont allow it you wouldnt want to break her heart down the road.
2006-09-06 10:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by Heidi B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask the boyfriend. I would normally say it's alright to have such a nickname for a close mentor or friend, but in this case it might harm her and him emotionally if she calls him "Dad" before he is legally "Dad."
2006-09-06 10:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends if you are taking this relationship serious and if you think its going for a long term thing. you should also first talk to your boyfriend and ask him if it is ok, you dont want him to freak out in front of your daughter if he hears it unexpectedly
2006-09-06 10:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you let HIM decide? I think it's fine, but what HE would want is what matters here. Obviously your daughter loves him and accepts him, and that's not a bad thing. How does HE feel about this?
2006-09-06 10:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend,,if he's okay with it..if not...I suggest u explain to your daughter..the reason why. He is your friend but he's not her dad. Be truthful... if ur bf is down with that...by all means....yes..it will create bonding between them......
2006-09-06 10:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is comfortable with it, and you and he are planning on a long term relationship that will lead to marriage then it should be a thing between him and her.....
If you have no plans on getting married, then I wouldnt suggest it, as it may confuse her.....
2006-09-06 10:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if her real dad left her, your relationship with your b/f, how your b/f feels about it, and the age of your daughter. Good luck!
2006-09-06 10:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by james w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if you are thinking of a long term relationship with your boyfriend. If so, go for it.
2006-09-06 10:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋