so what do you think about women who?

Question

go around saying that they have high self asteem or that theyre not insecure. and make a point to tell people that about themselves,i know a couple women that have said this to me,and i wonder if its really true.

Answer 1

I think if you talk about your self esteem it is some kind of issue to you. Otherwise it wouldn't be on your mind.

If you have truly arrived, you wouldn't notice it, much less talk about it. Or yourself.

They are fishing for validation.

Answer 2

I would not think someone who is secure and has self-esteem who have to make a point to let others know this.