I worked out what I'd like to do for a living, and studied it. Now I'm seeing how difficult it is to get into my field. I currently work part-time in a job I really dislike - my wage just covers my living costs, but I still have debts from studying (I'm not talking about my student loan here), which I'm stuggling to reduce. I'm applying for jobs when they come up, but usually don't even get a reply, and haven't had a single interview this year. Various circumstances throughout last year got me very down, and I've been on Prozac now for 13 months. The only thing keeping me up, and getting me out of the house is going to the gym which I joined recently - I'm especially enjoying the yoga classes.
I'm in my mid 30s, and feel I've missed my chances. I'm not getting anywhere, I'm just slowly turning into a ghost. I can still enjoy things, though the lack of money is limiting what I can do. What's the point in carrying on?
2006-09-06 10:24:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I studied Sound Design - sound recording/editing/design for Film/TV/animation/radio - and a bit of Video Editing. I'm willing to branch out from these areas...
Yes, there is a catch-22 situation of no experience=no work.
Being rubbish at networking isn't helping me either.
2006-09-06 10:46:12 · update #1
DON'T give up on yourself EVER. Staying physically active is a smart idea. Keep focused, and a break will come. Choose to think positive and not dwell on the negative. Good luck to you.
2006-09-06 11:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously feel for you especially if you're feeling the effects of depression (which i can completely understand). Anything I say might sound patronising right now but from my own experiences I'd seriously try a small amount of volunteering in an area close to the career that you're trying to break into (it's always easier to get in when you work for free) which could get you the contacts and cv fodder that makes the difference in getting an interview. It's not too late to pursue a different path. You say you enjoy yoga and the gym, maybe there's a volunteering opportunity there no matter how small the time you may have available. Try to find out what help or benefits might be available to you if you're barely covering living costs. Citizens advice can advise you if you feel unable to visit a benefits office right away.
Sounds trite, but talking to someone neutral can sometimes, not always help to sort out the wood from the trees.
wishing you the very best
2006-09-06 10:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by emread2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it would help if you told us what you studied and what type of position you are looking for. Now if it was me I would probably see if there is any type of volunter work that I could do in my field of study. I know it sucks not to get paid for doing what you love but it will be the expierance that you need to get to the job you want. I am assuming that you have never actually worked in the field that you are applying for so when they look at your resume there is no work history but if you volunter that is concidered work history in your field. Being that you only work part time right now that should allow you the necessary time to voluntier. Like I said earlier if I new your field of study I could maybe give a little better advise.
2006-09-06 10:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by Knock Knock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am experiencing something similar to your issue...I studied and finally got my degree, only to be unable to find a job in my chosen field because of lack of experience...so I'm doing something else, making less money than any of my friends, but unlike you I've not let it get me down THAT badly...
It's a bummer, true...but ya know what? I've got great friends, I live in an area I love, my job DOES cover my bills, and if I need more money then I can always work another job (even though that would be a total drag)...things could be so much worse than they are...I'm thankful to have what I do have...and every day I wake up I consider to be a great day!
Perhaps you just need a change of outlook...we don't always get what we want...studying something in college is no guarantee that we'll use it when we graduate...our lives are pretty much what we make them...make yours wonderful! :)
2006-09-06 10:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi ya why couldn't you find what you wanted? but in the mean time you are sounding so depressed,so the first thing is to recover from this,you can't rush it but keep going out and enjoy what you are doing,meeting people and going to the gym is a great way to find contacts,for jobs etc,then when you fell better try again,have you ever heard of the saying,if at first you don't succeed try try and try again,please don't give up,i was once told life's a **** you've just got to keep shovelling it.But i know at times that the shovel can get too heavy,but keep going there is a big wide world out there for you,there is somthing and someone waiting for you,i wish you good luck and keep smiling or at least try
2006-09-06 10:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the career path that you have selected? If you donate your time to get experience, you may end up creating more avenues for yourself.
In the meantime, focus on what works in your life. Find a place to make someone else's life better. Every time you see someone, play a game with yourself, see how many people's day you can improve just by interacting with them. See how that makes you feel.
When things are going wrong, it feels like there is no point at all. Things will improve!!!
More details please.
Contact your school and discuss techniques for getting employment.
2006-09-06 10:36:50 · answer #6 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like me a couple years ago. What you need to do is look at what you chose to do initially. For whatever reason, that didn't work. Now you have to think around it, create bridges and see where they take you.
My focus was mental health, I studied that, and injured by brain. Because I didn't have mental health, I branched out into community health, didn't work, I worked in retail, didn't work, food service, no, back to school - didn't work. I finally decided to go from my original interests, mental health, to physical health. I became a personal trainer and a massage therapist. I now have tools to get work, and I feel like I can do anything. Keep at it, and don't get down on yourself. There is a lot you can still do.
2006-09-06 10:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to turn this thing around and get back on your feet, you might try to get work through one of those temporary agencies (you'll find those in the yellow pages or, oftentimes they advertise in the "jobs" section of your local newspaper).. Sometimes these lead to permanent jobs. Or at least they get you out of the house, get you to mingle with people who may be in the same sort of boat you are and maybe you get to see that there are other alternatives. Good luck.
2006-09-06 10:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by robert43041 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really didnt say what your major was? say if it was in the medical field apply for a job below what you want and try to work your way up or in office management try applying in the mail room or a telemarketeer in a large company where there is room for moving up. just stay positive and try posting your resume to different places you would like to work dont always wait till something comes up try looking for it yourself. check back with companies you posted your resume to in about 7 to ten days and keep calling it may irratate the job but it will also show them your serious and persistant
2006-09-06 10:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by oceanlady580 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could keep trying to find a job in your chosen career or you could go to adult school and get a degree in some other career. You could try to become a pharmacy tech. They make like about $14-16 an hour and most hospitals are in need of them.
2006-09-06 10:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by sellatieeat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋