Why is it that the only men out their are the ones who lie, cheat, and steal. It seems like the only ones left are the ones who make babies and dont take care of them, or the ones who stay to get what they want then leave when they are done.
I'm a good girl, full of love and life. I know there are good guys out there looking for love and LTR, I just want to know where are they?
2006-09-06 10:23:57 · 35 answers · asked by Angie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they are all around you...you just overlook them becuase they are the "nice guys". I truly found one and i will never take him for granted...
2006-09-06 10:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by shasta 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why aren't there any good women out there anymore?
Why is it that the only women out there are the ones who ignore nice, sweet men with good jobs and who cook and are sensitive lovers, and instead they make jokes about them with their girlfriends, all the while salivating over the jock idiot weight-lifting motorcycle meat-head with the wife-beater t-shirt because he's cocky and cute rides a motorcycle, ignores them and treats them poorly?
These guys just have women falling all over them, they have different chicks every weekend. It kind of makes all us guys want to be like them. Yet they keep running back to them sobbing - "..but I love you, [insert name]" and they just keep rolling their eyes and treating them like dirt. These women have no self-respect!
But I'm a nice guy, full of love and life. I know there are self-respecting women out there somewhere, I just want to know where are they?
[sorry. This is rhetorical only. I'm engaged to a beautiful wonderful woman FROM ANOTHER COUNTRY.]
2006-09-06 10:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few good men still out there. What you have to do is pray that God will send you one of them and when he does you will know he is Mr Right. Sometimes we just have to wait on the Lord instead of trying to or hoping that the one we are with is the one.
2006-09-06 10:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by teresa.edmonds@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're out here. Just be patient, and make the most of yourself. He'll show up when you don't expect it. I'm still single at 31, and I am a freaking catch. I am going to rock some lucky girl's world.
2006-09-06 10:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
real men you dont want
because they are honest to you and to themselves
at least the other guy will tell you what you want to hear ..for a while anyway.
I consider myself a good guy, I dont, lie or cheat. however I will tell you in the begininng that I need other women. if you cant handle that then..
you want the other guy, at least you wont know he is boping someone else until its to late
2006-09-06 10:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Xae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck to you for starters. I'm one of those good guys. As far as I understand it most good guys, just get put into the "Nice guy for a friend" catagory. They get ignored, 'cause most girls are looking for that bad boy attitude with the good guy personality. It's there, I'm one... but I'm concentrating on my studies hence... not trying to start anything. I'm not going to start anything with anyone for another four years till I have my life straight.
2006-09-06 10:30:38 · answer #6 · answered by Rivan81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are out there,just when your thru looking one will come along. trick is don't settle for second best. what you described is not even second best. set your standards and go for it. don't give up. The bar is definately not a great place to find a guy, how about one of your friends who has other friends-- it's worth a shot.
2006-09-06 12:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are alot of good guys left. but it does take time to find one. i was married for 10 years and he lied and cheated. but now i found an amazing guy that I've been with for 7 years. and its wonderful. if your young it seems like for ever to find one. as you get older the guys grow up and get better. Patience's.
2006-09-06 10:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Creepy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just don't look anymore...when its the right time it will come to me, and like someone already said..the "nice guys" get over looked b/c they are the "nice" ones. Just stop looking so hard if your young just live your life. Im 21 and just having fun and meeting a lot of people. It will come hun...soon it will just try not to look so hard. Hope it works out for you. Good luck :)
2006-09-06 10:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren_Ann20 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The good ones are still out there. Maybe you're not looking in the right places.
2006-09-06 10:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl were raise to belive to be swept of there feets by a charming prince someday,and the the guys you talk about use this ,charming bull s as a avantage,as girls cant think straight giggleing,you could charm right to bed if you wanted too. she right,make your move for the layback one that like you,you might be suprise,
2006-09-06 10:43:20 · answer #11 · answered by aqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋