I am having hard time reaching an orgasm, its like i never had one.?

Answer 1

Usually the harder a woman tries to have an orgasm, the less likely she will be to have one. Therefore, during the next few times you have sex, try not to have one, avoid it at all costs.

Roll playing can sometimes also help with this, because now you are someone different. Try putting on a different colored wig, wearing your make-up differently, and pretending you are someone else, by perhaps taking charge of the foreplay and sex. I doubt your mate will be opposed to this : )

Answer 2

Do it by yourself, fantasize, and use clitoral stimulation. Get what is called a "silver bullet" from the sex store. I believe it is impossible for a man to make you orgasm if you can't even make yourself. You have to know what you like in order to direct him and tell him how to please you. All women are different so no man can know exactly how to please you unless you tell him.

Answer 3

I was the same way. Play with ur clit while ur having sex. It works. U could also buy a vibrator and hold on ur clit. Vibrators r a miracle!!! U'll have the best orgasm EVER!

Answer 4

First, how old are you?

Second, how are you trying to orgasm?

Answer 5

Not all girls can orgasm by having sex

Answer 6

Like a virgin? Touched for the very first time?

Answer 7

it could be that you are worrying to much, and trying to hard to have one. stop worrying, let your body enjoy the moment, the feelings. it will come naturally when you are relaxed, and enjoying yourself

Answer 8

try some of mr2fister-just what the doctor ordered

Answer 9

so sorry 4 u

Answer 10

buy yourself a pocket rocket...practice makes perfect...