how can I be less nice.?

Question

Everyone , especially men say I am too nice...what steps can I take steps to be a *****? Apparently nice girls finish last....

Answer 1

What do they mean by this?

No, you don't want to turn yourself into a ***** (whichever word that was meant to be).

If you let people walk all over you, you can stop that happening without stopping being nice.

Read Miss Manners -- she does an excellent job of clarifying how people can politely avoid being taken advantage of (assuming that's what this is about).

Most people seem to assume the only two choices are being a doormat or being rude. This is simply not true. You can be polite and stand up for yourself and avoid doing things you don't want -- all at the same time.

(It's hard to give specifics, since your question lacks all specifics. I do wish more people would explain what they mean or give examples.)

Answer 2

each body is a lot less fantastic i trust for 2 motives the first because of religion taking a back sit down, i do not care what particular communities of people say faith is the position we get maximum if no longer all of our moral values and faith is what construct our society's and cultures. and 2d because each body is starting to be further and extra self-targeted they do issues for the sturdy of themselves truly than for households, kin individuals, communities etc besides the very undeniable reality that I even might want to confess that the 2d reason is amazingly heavily linked to the first because faith helps people to understand why that's sturdy to assist others, because each body is more desirable selfish they concentration more desirable on the the following and now and pay no interest to the ends up of their moves contained in the destiny, it also explains how each body is getting more desirable lower than pressure attempting to stay as a lot as expectations that get more desirable complicated and in turn being fantastic is then considered as being a lot less valued or perhaps in some circumstances a lot less respected.

Answer 3

No...don't change...we need nice girls like you! We meaning the guys, children, the world. Don't let others rob you of such a beautiful attribute, just tailor it so you are not "too nice" to those that don't deserve you.

Answer 4

That's kinda interesting, I was just answering a question about nice guys finishing last....I would be interested in chatting with you, don't be less nice, I like nice girls!!!

Answer 5

Don't change who you are. Guys who say you are too nice aren't worth your time and don't deserve you. You deserve a guy who will treasure you and love you for the person you are even if your too nice so to speak.

Answer 6

it shouldnt matter as long as your comfortable doing what u do then who cares how nice you are...real men will not abuse that men with low self esteems will..find a man who is confident in who he is and youll be surprised how things work out...wanna chat some time ill give ya more advice take care johnny

Answer 7

Just be honest or more direct. Speak your mind and don't worry about what others think.

Answer 8

Have ongoing sexual realtionships with several men at once

Answer 9

uhh i dont know y u would want to be less nice maybe the advice u need is not to change yo self 4 nobody i dunno y i would ever want mt gurl to be a biatch but that is just me

Answer 10

When you jump to do something for someone, stop yourself.

Oh but I second what ther last guy said. :)