Are there any guys in this world who like girls for the RIGHT reasons??

Question

Most guys only like girls because of their busts and their pretty faces. Do any guys actually like girls for their true self? or do you only like her because shes hot? Girls, do yall know any guys like this? oh and guys please post your age when answering

Answer 1

I would have more respect for those respective guys, if they would just state ahead of time something along the lines of, "I'm totally going out with you for the next 5 months 'cos of that of yours!"

Then, I could respond in kind, "Well shoooot, that's great, 'cos I'm just using you for your !"

Answer 2

Adrian, 26 in November, a Southern Gentleman in the Midwest.

1. What are the right reasons? Humans were created to procreate. Your body is made for sex.
2. Most girls have sex with girls for their busts and faces. Not all guys are shallow. Men like women for the same generic reasons that women like men.
3. I am into the entire makeup of a woman(walk, talk, personality, body, and everything). Things that I like vary from woman to woman(example: I like Vivica's butt, but I don't look at Angelina in the same way).
4. The problem may be a low self-esteem with you. Go do something with yourself and stop the negative mindset.

Answer 3

I'm turning 18 in January and I like a girl who is so amazing. I could have had a relationship with her a couple months ago, but I ruined that chance by not being brave. I'm still to nervous to ask her out, even though she knows how much I like her. Back then I could have been the happiest boy on Earth. But now I think her affection for me has been forgotten and I feel awful. I wish I could go back and ask her out. Anyways , though, I love her for her true self and not her looks.

Answer 4

anytime I see this I have to ask what exactly is your physical appearance and attitude in public. If you are young and out of shape and have a bad attitude because of it then you will never give yourself a chance to meet someone to show your "true-self" Another question is what type of guys do you hang around or try to hang around with, if your talking about the "hot or popular" guys then you have to start hanging around with the "geeks" and "uncool" guys or the quite guys, usually they are less shallow and are more than happy meeting girls. Bill Gates was a geek....
If your good looking or even hot then stop hanging around with the "hot or popular" guys because all they want are hot chicks, goes with their ego, do not associate all guys with this group!
Bottom line it's not all guys fault for this, I believe it's just a small group of guys that have mis-lead you into believing this, kind of makes you shallow, your choice
I'm 35 and happily married not a jock, not a geek, one of those neutral behind the scene "good guy or nice guy" .we are every where in every age group, just need to find where the behind the scenes are

Answer 5

Sounds to me like you're meeting adolescents, and yes, 90% of adolescents choose girls based almost exclusively on looks. This is usually not a problem, since most adolescent girls ALSO choose boys based on how 'hott' they are, or how popular, or how buff or some other shallow determination. Usually after age 25, most girls become women and stop being quite as shallow. For men, figure it takes till about age 30+.

My age, 30+.

Answer 6

I am 35 and you question just said, "hey does any guy out there like a girl that does not care about her appearence and does not intend to change?" Guys are optically motivated and they must be attracted but you should also know that "whit" has a large part of that. I have seen some "great" looking women that were not attractive because of their attitude toward men.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Yes, I am one of these tough-to-find guys, but it doesn't necessarily mean I've been successful with women. In fact, I am a shy, decent, normal guy who treats women with respect, but apparently I am not enough of a "challenge" to women, or so I've been told by a few people. I guess there's something to the ideology of "nice guys finish last..." I suppose the right personl is still out there for everyone, hopefully so....anyhow, that's my 2 cents. I am 26 by the way.

Answer 9

Aye, there's the rub. I like women for the right reasons, but I am 64 and married.

Yes, there are men who like women for the right reasons.

But, it takes a bit of arrogance for a woman to assume she will be the one that is loved for the right reason.

Just as most men overstate their desirability to the best of women, most women overstate their desirability to the best of men. The Ugl stepsisters thought they were Cinderella but they weren't.

I counseled over 1,600 divorced men some years ago. Most of their problems were because they married for the big chest, great body, and pretty face. They got what they deserved, which was plenty of agony and despair.

I would tell them you need to pick a woman for her personality and character. They would leave and in two years would be back. Guess what?

I'd tell them, gotta' pick women for their personalities and character. They's insist, "I gotta' have an attractive woman."

So there you were. After while I tired of counseling idiots and stopped it.

Answer 10

like all guys i like a hot girl but there are more importent things
1 like they have to be funny
2 good personaailty
3 not prude
4 and still lets me have other friends that r girls

o yea im 15

Answer 11

You answered your own question...you said "most" guys like busts and pretty faces...the rest of the guys care for personality and the inner beauty...

I agree with you...these inner beauty types are very rare...but they are out there...there are good guys out there...it will only take time to find them...so, hang in there....