My good friend has been broken up with her ex for about six months now, and he makes it known to everyone that he likes me. I like him too, but is this wrong?
2006-09-06 09:27:33 · 26 answers · asked by captain weems 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away from that dear. There are plenty of others out there, so it wouldn't be wise dating your friend's ex... Your good friend is more important....
2006-09-06 09:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes darling it is.. why would u want ur friends leftovers?? why would u want to hurt ur friend and ruin ur relationship by dating someone she's dated and cared for?? why would u want to give the guy the satisfaction of allowing him to date 2 good friends??
ur allowing a guy to come between ur relationship w/ur friend.. that's wrong and straight grimey.. their r boundaries u should never cross and dating an ex of a friend is one of them.. another guy will come along that neither of u have been with and that would be a better option....
don't u care about ur friends feelings? or r u selfish and only worried bout having a bf??
ur no good friend if u had to post this question!!!
2006-09-06 16:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how long they were together and if it was amutual split, as you dont want to get into something that could get messy, and lose a very good friend over it, also there is nothing wrong with liking this guy you just need to tread carefuly, i would sit your friend down and casually bring her ex into conversation and ask her how she would feel if he met someone else? but dont mention yourself then just see how the land lies thereafter
2006-09-06 16:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by TRACY M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been in this situation, my best friend went with my ex. It depends on your friend, talk to her before you go any further with the boy. If your friend still has feelings for her ex, LEAVE HIM ALONE!
2006-09-06 16:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by mookeymoo01 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to your friend. If she is ok with it then go for it but if not then forget about it. A good friend will last a lot longer than your relationship with this guy.
2006-09-06 16:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
XXXXXXXXXXX Yes, never date your friends ex, unless you want your friend to be your ex. This kind of relationship never work out for all parties involved.
2006-09-06 16:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, why start something that has the possibility of breaking up a friendship.
2006-09-06 16:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!
The first rule of dating is to NEVER date your friends ex!
2006-09-06 16:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by Lindsey H 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he wants to bed you to piss her off. Don't think there's anything real to it. I tried the same thing to a girl that hurt me in Korea. Hurt the friend more when she found it was only grudge sex.
2006-09-06 16:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't even go there. That would be in very poor taste and the quickest way to lose a friend.
2006-09-06 16:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by mad 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋