Should I tell him?

Question

I met this guy at the mall and I've talked to him

over the phone twice. He told me that he's had

a lot of girlfriends. I am 17 and have never had

a boyfriend. Will he find this unattractive? Should

I tell him?

Answer 1

I have a quick question for you; do you want to be just another one of his "girlfriends?" Just another conquest for him. Why not find someone who will treat you as his one and only? Also, you should ask him why he's had "a lot" of girlfriends. Is he a player? Does he get dumped a lot? If so, why? You should find out; you owe it to yourself. Don't you?

Answer 2

Hey, First of all if you've only talked to him twice you should get to know him a little more, then go from there, on the other hand it's OK that you haven't had a boyfriend he might find this attractive because he knows that you haven't been "around the block" if you know what I mean. Another thing is he might have been saying he's had a lot of girlfriends because he thought that's what you wanted to hear, when the truth is he might have only had one, but by letting him know that you haven't had a boyfriend yet might make him ease up and not feel pressured to impress you. In the end if he really likes you he won't care about your past and he'll like you for who you really are. I hope this helps, if you have any questions then feel free to e-mail me!
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Answer 3

Chances are it will turn him on, because he'll feel he can control you. However I'd be careful about a guy that brags about all the girlfriends he's had in the past, because players like to prey upon easy marks and brag about it, and a woman that hopes to find her first love is an easy mark. You don't want to end up as yet another notch on his bedpost.

Therefore, take the relationship very slow, allowing him only as much advancement, as you "yourself" are "joyfully" willing to accept. If he is the man you hope he is, he will wait until you are ready to proceed further. Otherwise, you will have just saved yourself a heartbreak.

Answer 4

It doesnt matter if you've ever had a boyfriend or not. And that's not a topic for conversation. I'm sure there are many things to talk about. Sounds like he's trying to impress you by telling you he's had many girlfriends. Dont give it a 2nd thought.

Answer 5

There are all sorts of people in the world. But, to most mature males, learning a girl is somewhat innocent and inexperienced is like putting gasoline on a fire! Trust me on this!

Unless he is a real libertine, and doesn't want to spend more then 15 minutes leading up to the bedroom activities...

Answer 6

Well first of all does the guy know your 17 and if he does how old is he? It kind of disturbs me with young people going out with people of age. Anyway

You should tell him because he might think you know what's going on and try to get you to do things you might not want to do. Then he could possibly turn out to be a dick because of it. Just tell him and see what his reaction will be, that will be able to tell you alot about him.

Answer 7

Be honest with him, dont look at this as you getting involved with him just yet, its really early yet and if you look at this as you getting to know a friend then everything will be ok. Keep it light and comfortable. And by the way, you're still pretty young so just take it easy, and relax a little bit.

Answer 8

Don't tell him you've never had a boyfriend, but do tell him you've never had sex. Don't easily give in to let him be your first. If he's had a lot of girlfriends, that probably means STD's also. Just wait until you meet the right one, you'll know.

Answer 9

I dont think hell find that unattractive. You could tell him if it comes up but it really doesnt matter. What does matter is if there is chemistry between the 2 of you.

Answer 10

Don't tell him a thing.. and be careful, he could be a "player" so don't put everything out on the line just yet! Go with the flow.. but dont get hurt!!