If your girlfriend not virgin anymore and when you know that she made love 3 times on his first boyfriend and 2 or 3 time or can't count of her second boyfriend. What should you do? You still go on with her? If in case they meet their ex-boyfriends by chance , is there a big tendency that they will do it again bec. they already had a story on the past.
2006-09-06 08:46:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Were you a virgin when you started going out with her? If not, then you have no right to disparage her for something she did before she was with you.
2006-09-06 08:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Alright dude...I think its best summed up like this.
Yes you should continue to date her. She has experience and you will appreciate that when you become intimate. Also, who cares if she has done it in the past...that shouldn't concern you. This isn't the 1800's. People are never virgins before marraige now.
Now to the touchy subject. Yes she is more likely to re-do an old boyfriend. Like you probably know, most of us guys think that once you have had her, you ALWAYS can. There is a reason we think this way. To your problem then, you have to be the man these other guys weren't. You need to give her what she needs so that she doesn't have to go looking for it. Find what she needs, be it sex, love, a thrill and provide that for her and she won't look elsewhere. Its like going to walmart or running around to a bunch of different stores. Just go to Walmart...everything is there. You=Walmart.
You can't worry about her going back because that will make you crazy and paranoid. If you think that is a serious concern, then make up your mind to either not date her or to walk on the relationship if she cheats.
Great question.
2006-09-06 16:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Morty 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She is obviously not good enough for you. Just have sex with her and move on to another girl. The one you marry will not be a virgin and will not save themselves for you.
Even christian girls dont save themselves anymore. Get your experience in. This girl is obviously not good enough in your mind but you got her right now. Just get all the sex you can out of her then dump her. Nobody said you have to stay.
2014-11-26 01:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by D1CFB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the past! You shouldnt judge anyone just cause the relationships they have been in before you.
2006-09-06 15:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by Lindsey H 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What do you want? A virgin? will you marry then and live with her forever, never divorce?
OR JUST A VIRGIN, TAKE HER TO A DOCTOR AND GET HER STITCHED AND get her re-VIRGIN, THEN GET WHAT YOU DESIRE!
2006-09-06 16:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yr so full of yr own conciet ya don't have a clue.....what if someone found out?....what if...what if.......forget it....if ya cared it wouldn;t matter....now how do ya start carin...without ...harpin and hootn and foootn?....forget the sex part...ya can gain a lot of decent respect here...for yerself and her
2006-09-06 15:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by rod h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing that we can do...past is past, If you really love her then trust her
2006-09-06 15:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by lolipop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you are fairly certain to get in her panties!
Remember:
1. Bang her
2. Leave her
3. Move on to the next chick
4. Get in her panties
5. Repeat steps 1 - 4
2006-09-06 15:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
This is a silly thing to worry about, my friend. Her past is her past. How many guys and how many times she has had sex has nothing to do with you. Don't think on it anymore.
2006-09-06 15:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by Muley Bob 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
As long as she is your focus, her past is her past
2006-09-06 15:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋