If... you and a guy been in a committed relationship for 9 month right. You guys REALLY love & care for each other but ofcoure you have differences in personality/opinion which come out ove time. Due to that, some misunderstandings and some lil arguments stat for say about 2-3 months out of that 9. One day, you really get frustrated at the arguments and you break it off, saying you THINK you should be friends. He pleads u say ok, you will reconsider, you still care about him and want a relationship but cant take anymore of the arguments.
He and you to now UNDERSTAND each othe more, he is trying to communicate that to you but you jut dont want to get back & argue anymore over lil stuff really. Question is, WHAT would make you take him back? What would you want him to do or what, just let me know ok.
2006-09-06 08:37:40 · 9 answers · asked by BaByHugH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would think, Promise and mean it, that you aren't going to knit pick and sweat the small stuff anymore. You have to let people be who they are. If you can accept them for that, it is all good, if not, part ways.
2006-09-06 08:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay, ive been i am relationship for 13months and engaged 7months! we knit pick bout the lil things but in order to get used to each other arguments happen. there isnt a week that goes by that we dont fight! its a part of life. We have been living together for 11months, let me tell you that was a challenge! but now we are building a horse farm together, because the little things shouldnt get in the way of love.
2006-09-06 16:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by country_cowgirl2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex and I used to get into arguments over little thing a lot. We would both find little things to nit-pick about. It was because neither of us was happy anymore. It was over but we were not ready to let go. Now that we are apart, I am happy again, and I know he is too. This may be a sign that it is really over.
2006-09-06 15:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would want some time to think about it and if i see that you are really trying to fix things i would go back
if you guys really love each other you will get back just remember that love takes patients and as long as you don't lose it there is something still there. hope i helped
2006-09-06 15:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by sea 26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Slow down and read what you are writing! I never take a man back after anything....cause it isn't worth our time to be pissed at each other all of the time! Maybe you should learn how to spell??
2006-09-06 15:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend and i used to fight ALL the time over little stuff. we broke up for that and other reasons. but he promised to change and stop the fightong so i took him back b/c i love him.
2006-09-06 15:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by Krissi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen to your heart. It will lead you in the right direction.(hopefully).
2006-09-06 15:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by De 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess if he jus showed he really cared and tried to see things from my point of view and if he would help me more to see things from his point of view.
2006-09-06 15:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by Deni T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-09-06 15:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by Not Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋