What you think will she really do it ? or what is the other meaning behind this please help
2006-09-06 08:21:03 · 16 answers · asked by Thinking 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she said it in a funny way but still it make me worry so much I am not in the same place now she is far now I am in home for vaccation when I don;t get email about what she does I get bad thoughts please help .
2006-09-06 09:07:34 · update #1
she means that she likes the sex with u and she doesnt want u to leave her or break up with her because she wold be hurt and horney and she wold end up having sex with lots of men.
2006-09-06 08:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by europe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to tell her that she must not have respect for her self to say that or do that.You need to really think if this is a healthy relationship for you or tell her to go for it and you know you can find another woman that won't threating you about other guys and that you need to know maybe she wants to trap you and try to get pregnant! Trust me I have a brother who went through the same thing and she got pregnant and then left him with the baby after she decided that's not what she wanted and now my brother raises her and she'd 5yrs.old so be careful.If any more advice email
2006-09-06 15:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by siouxgodness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she is insecure and very imature! She may have sex with lots of men if you break up with her- but if you break up with her- why do you care? So she wants sleep around- let her. Tell her to have fun and don't bother calling you again. She wants you to feel guilty and stay with her for that reason! Kind of crapy if you ask me!
2006-09-06 15:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional blackmail and from the sounds of it she is very young and silly in the head.
Anyway if you did break up, from that moment on she is not your responsability... and she is old enough to take care of herself.
So you shouldn't worry about her, unless of course you caused her to turn into a coo coo head?
She's just trying to blackmail you into staying in a unhealthy relationship.. and she doesn't see that...
2006-09-06 15:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by swma76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she is saying is if that would bother you, then don't break up with her, and she knows it would because otherwise she would not have said it. Sad really, puts the responsibility for her actions on you instead of on her (if she does it) and basically that's emotional blackmail. Not good.
2006-09-06 15:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by btdt65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you break up with her don't let it bother you about her wanting to be a slut. She is just trying to make you feel guilty. Love can't be real if it's based on guilt.
2006-09-06 15:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? At that point the relationship is over.
2006-09-06 15:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by scooba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to leave here and/or break up with her.... where is the problem? if she wants to bang Chicago thats her choice... if you want to stay with her then stay if not bail and move on....
2006-09-06 15:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by nikonjedi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is nasty!! This is just emotional blackmail.
If you want to dump her, then do. If she chooses to sleep around that is her own decision and not your fault at all.
2006-09-06 15:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs Wibble 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she wants to lower her standards then let her.Sounds like she has no self respect for herself.Do not feel guilty and do not let that stand on your decisions about you two.
2006-09-06 15:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by llgarrett69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋