he says he isnt and that i know him better than that and if i think he is then we shouldn do that kind of thing for a while. but we still ended up doing them sort of things. its not that i dont want to its just whenever we see each other 'things' or 'it' always ends up happening. what do you think?
2006-09-06 08:19:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. You lucky, lucky thing you. Enjoy!
2006-09-06 08:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would exercise some self-discipline, you could find out. "It" doesn't just "end up" happening; it happens because you let it. Which is worth more to you, having some extra sex, or finding out the answer to your question? You are behaving as though having some extra sex is more important. If you really want to learn the answer, stop having sex for awhile and see.
2006-09-06 15:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what other things you do when you're together.
Do you feel like you can trust him? Do you talk about yourselves and have some depth to your relationship?
You should have a proper chat with him about why you feel like this and see if he can reassure you. If this doesn't work then could agree to not have sex with him for a set amount of time and see how that goes.
2006-09-06 15:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs Wibble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u ever try and do nytin different that 'those things' ? maybe u have fallen into a trap of just expecting to hook up! u cld just find the courage to ask him to join u in a suituation wer 'those things' are not appropiate bt still fun, if hes using ul no soon enough as he wont wanna spend this kinna time with u ?
2006-09-06 15:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get the feeling that he's commitment-shy, or avoids the issue of the future, or shows you little affection normally, or only seems to act lovely-dovey when he's trying to get in your knickers, then yes he is.
It takes a bigger person to say no to sex - next time you see him, hold back from the sex. Then you'll see his true colours.
2006-09-06 15:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. What about the rest of your relationship? Do you go out together and spend time together with friends and family etc. If so, he is probably not using you JUST for sex and fancies you like mad.
However, if you never go out or do other stuff together, then perhaps he is.
2006-09-06 16:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by Sally J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand, if you both want to do it, how are you being used. I think most men want it all the time. If you give in everytime he wants it, how is that his fault??
Even if that's all the two of you do together, I personally think you are using each other, he's not raping you.
2006-09-06 15:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by SpittinThaReal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly we dont know your age.if you are over 16 then my advice is when he asks you again tell him NO until he proves that he likes you for other things apart from sex.do not give in all the time which you are obviously doing if you are under 16 stop now
2006-09-06 15:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you dont want to then dont let him even try his luck there is more to a relationship then sex ,just try talking to him and at the end of the day if in dout get out
2006-09-06 16:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long you've been together, me personally will wait a month before jumping in, if your really really paranoid about this sit him down and explain your reasons why you feel like this, just say to him 'look i know we've talked about this before..."
if you've just started going out all you can think about is rippin each others clothes off so don't worry about it, its normal!
2006-09-06 15:26:38 · answer #10 · answered by vegetamistress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is and you have to ask, then he probably is. But it's real easy for you to find out. Just stop having sex with him and see if he sticks around.
2006-09-06 15:26:16 · answer #11 · answered by virgogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋