2006-09-06 08:12:27 · 10 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This one is VERY important!!! Are you ready ............COMMUNICATION. He/She mustg be able to communicate effectively. THat means listening and choosing words carefully. Also HOW to give constructive criticism. I have seen couples almost end up hating each other b/c either one talks way tooooo much and the other is not listening or seems insensitive to what their partner had to say. I can't stress enough how important a role communication plays in a relationship. Hope this helps!!:)
2006-09-06 08:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by Naomi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, and yes I admit it, I need to be physically attracted to the woman, even if it is only slightly. If that isn't there, then it won't work.
Next, I need to be able to carry on an educated conversation with her. Eventually, if this person is going to be my partner, I need to know that I can talk to her about anything and get a decent reply.
I also look for someone who has goals and is trying to always improve themselves. It doesn't matter what the goal is, as long as they have them. That can be anything from a career plan, to a dream vacation they are working to, or being a mother.
Finally, the have to understand my sense of humour. A little dark, a little wacky....but they have to understand it.
I find that if one of those things is off, I will find the smallest little fault in a woman and focus on it until I no longer like them. If they are all present, the little faults no longer matter.
2006-09-06 08:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by Nice Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Elegant
Intelligent
Wise
Passionate for life
Enjoys nature
Good people skills
Smiles more often than not
A person who, if we’ve been away for a long time, is not scared to run up and tackle me, or jump up onto my hips and hug me.
The perfect Hostess
Kind, caring, and generous
Simple, but beautiful
Non-judgmental
Someone Witty
Someone who is not scared of wrestling with me even if she might loose every time
Someone who never gets tiered of challenging me, pushes me to my limits and beyond in all things good. This also could mean encouraging me to grow and herself with me.
Loyal, and dependable
Trustworthy
A person who likes to travel, and has a sense of adventure.
Friendly
Driven, and also goal orientated
-“I want first place, but I’ll take second if I must,” mentality.
Random Hugs and Kisses
She must either be strong mentally, or strong physically, preferably both.
Independent, but still would want her partner to help her with things.
She must not be shy or coy with me most of the time.
She must voice her opinions to me, and not hide her true thoughts or feelings about anything.
She should be willing to make decisions on an equal level with me.
Curious & Inquisitive
Mysterious & Devious
Comedian & Jovial nature
-“I can dish it, but I can take what I dish too.”
Beautiful Eyes is a must.
Must Like Dogs & Cats
Must like and be good with children.
Might be an elitist, but also be down to earth.
Open minded
Free spirited
No limitations
Can be shy but also forthright.
Fire in the eyes.
Charming and Attention grabbing
Patient
A person who says what they do, and does what they say. A person who is not a flake or a fake.
A person who trusts me, as I trust them.
A person who is my friend as well as a partner in all things.
A person who will help me as much as I will help them.
A person who is my equal in all/most decisions that effect one or both of us.
2006-09-06 08:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by Rivan81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wonderful sense of humor but someone who can still be serious. Extremely intelligent, because if I cant have an actual conversation/debate with you then I seriously cant be with you. A kind and gentle soul who doesnt believe in harboring hate. A good person who knows the value of a hard days work and isnt afraid to stand up for what they believe in. Lots and lots of good things, but in short, my husband. He has everything Ive ever wanted and more.
2006-09-06 08:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs to have a warm heart and be honest, humorous, affectionate, and generous in spirit. I must respect him so he should be a man who can set and achieve goals, lead by example, and respect himself.
2006-09-06 12:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner has to have a great sense of humor, so he can make me laugh.
He, of course, has to be good looking.
He has to know how to treat his woman with respect.
He has to know who he is as a person.
He has to be friendly, and easy to talk to.
2006-09-06 08:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want a guy to be funny and strong and romantic and someone who is not so jealous. A hard worker(not meaning rich) and someone with goals... basicaly someone who makes me happy
2006-09-06 08:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysperfec237 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Intelligent, good heart, funny, likes animals and dosent believe in the death penalty.
2006-09-06 08:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by leanna1700 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty,faithfulness and for apperance,definatly brown hair and eyes.Cause mine are blue,so i like brown! Looks,well,that doesn't concern me to much. I'm not gorgous,but i'm certanly not bad looking=)
2006-09-06 08:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sweet, caring, faithful, protective to an extint, and funny.
2006-09-06 08:15:44 · answer #10 · answered by Deni T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋