he seems like it but i just dont know!! hes told me he wants to be ina relationship with me but he still hasnt asked me out?? He even tells me he loves me!! Ive had bad relationships i dont want to get hurt again!!ummm....We have alot in common and we connect well!! Should i ask him out?? What should i Do???
2006-09-06 08:07:58 · 18 answers · asked by baby_gyrl_913 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Asking him out wouldn't hurt, and it would answer your question.
2006-09-06 08:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he already took the biggest step of all in telling you that he loves you then the rest is the last thing you should worry about. However you should ask him straight what type of relationship do we have? And let him know how feel and what you want. Don't pressure him but don't hide your thoughts and feelings either. Make sure that you ask the right questions so that you both land on the same page. And sure go ahead ask him out its the 21st century
2006-09-06 15:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by andia2amat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not in a relationship then he is not your guy and if you want to go out with him then ask him out.
If you are not in a relationship feel free to date others and if you find someone better go for it. Next time he won't wait so long to ask a girl out.
2006-09-06 15:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Accept the fact that you're going to get hurt or dont ever have a relationship again.
2) Ask him out.
2006-09-06 17:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are unsure f his feelings for you, it for two reasons. First, you are still carrying too much baggage from your past realtionship. Get rid of it, it will contaminate this relationship. Your baggage that you carry is yours, and he is not responsible for it. Everything that you pereive, if seen through a "filter lens" that your baggage creates. Baggage alters your reality and distorts your perception.
Second, if his behavior does not accurately reflect how he says he feels, then he is probably unsure of how he feels, himself. Any guy can say anything you want to hear, or what they want you to believe......but how they feel inside is revealed by their behavior and their actions. This is all transparent, if you are paying attention to it, rather than your baggage.
Get rid of your baggage by forgiving who hurt you for their shortcomings. Forgive yourself also, for letting yourself be affected by it. Admit that you are in charge of your feelings, and never hold others responsible for them. Thank your ex for teaching you more about yourself and helping you discover what you want and what you will not accept from someone. Thank him for teaching you what to avoid in the future. Move on without fear. This "afraid to be hurt" kind of fear will hold you back from growing. Each time you become emotionally invested in anyone, you are giving yourself the opportunity to learn more about yourself. Each person teaches you more about who you are. Sometimes you may get rejected or betrayed, but don't avoid taking that risk, Things could just as easily go the other way, and you might click with someone who respects your perspective, trusts your intentions, and accepts you as you are, appreciates your feelings, and has empathy for your experiences.
You will be better able to spot that person, when you know more about yourself. And when you do, you will not question, wonder, or worry how they feel about you, because it will come out in their behavior, which will match how they say they feel. You will be certain of how they feel, just as you are certain you know your own name......
2006-09-06 15:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him. He has said he wants to be in a relationship with you, so go for it.
If he says no then that proves he's a lying so & so and isn't worth dating.
2006-09-06 15:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs Wibble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can never really tell w guys......sometimes u think they wanna be w u but they only want sex....nd sometimes they act like they dont want u wen they secretley do. Also it depends on ur age.........nd u seem too immature to be dating.
2006-09-06 15:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys arent to keen on expressing themselves so i think in other words he did and possibly thinks yous are dating
2006-09-06 15:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him drunk and ask him to ask you out. The truth will come out for sure
2006-09-06 15:10:16 · answer #9 · answered by STEVE-0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will always call u,want to talk to u, will not want to avoid u 4 what ever reason,will even get angry if u dont answer his calls........he will feel very comfortable while with u;he will also confide in u;and he will show u real love.....u will definitely know with these
2006-09-06 15:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by mr cool 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋