Why do women get so upset when you tell them all you want is to sleep with them?

Answer 1

I too wonder the same thing. There has got to be some girls out there that would enjoy pounding it out a few rounds with no strings attached.

Answer 2

From "why men don't listen and why women can't read maps" by Barbara and Allan Pease

When Women Make Love, Men Have Sex

An old adage holds that making love is what a woman
does while a man is bonking her. What it actually is,
however, often sparks arguments between lovers everywhere.
A man will call sex 'sex' but a woman is likely
to react negatively to the word as it is not, by her definition,
the way it is. A woman 'makes love', meaning
that she needs to feel loved and have loving feelings
before she wants to have sex. To most women the act
of 'sex' is generally seen as a loveless, gratuitous act
because the wiring of a female brain does not identify
with this definition.
When a man says 'sex', sometimes he means just
physical sex, but this doesn't mean he doesn't love his
woman. When a man wants to 'make love', he is still
likely to call it 'sex'. This can have negative effects on a
woman, but to use the expression 'make love' can make
many men feel that they are being phoney or conning
her, because sometimes he just wants sex. When a
woman claims a man is 'sleeping' with someone, you can bet he is not sleeping. 'How could you sleep with
her?' women ask. 'You don't even like her!'
Emotionally, men and women do seem to inhabit
different planets, but it's not necessarily down to a male
lack of moral fibre. The bit of the brain that handles
our emotions - the limbic system - has two parts.
There is the old part (temporal limbic) which is the bit
that deals with sex and violence, and a newer part
(gyrus cinguli) which is more linked into thinking and
imagining. Male brains are more active in the old part
and are more tuned for action and women's brains are
active in the newer part for 'symbolic emotional
responses.' When men and women understand each
other's perspective and agree not to judge each other's
definition, this obstacle ceases to be a stumbling block
in the relationship.

Answer 3

Some women get upset because they think that it proves that all men are dogs which is a common theory for women. But honestly there are allot of women who are not interested in any thing more than a one night stand and would be glad to hear you say that. Because some woman don't really want to put up with having you around full time they just want to sample the goods see if your worth a taste. or maybe a second dip. so don't think its exclusive that only men want to take a taste and move on. some of us might just wanna grope you a little just to see what its like. then we move on. Unless its really worth sticking around. So why should we get upset ?

Answer 4

Because most woman put alot into their partner. Becoming intimate with a man is a sign she is very interested in him. Sure there are some bed hopers out there, but in general woman feel making love to a man is special, shows he cares.

Me I would never sleep with a guy I am not involved with one on one. A girl has to be careful you know. It may seem a bit old fashion but being in love with a man first before you have sex sure means a hell of alot more. The passion is hot, and you both remember the night for more then the time you were between the sheets.

Answer 5

Well, you get points for being direct.

Most women want a relationship. Women can find a sex partner in 2-minutes (if they aren't picky) so why should they sleep with you?

Women are people, not sex objects. They expect respect. To tell them that you only want sex (an not a relationship) is insulting.

It's Saturday night and you're dressed up and at your favorite club. You're looking for romance. A hot woman walks up to you and asks to use your cell phone. She makes it very clear that she doesn't want to talk to you or to sleep with you, she just wants to use your phone. How do you feel?

Answer 6

Not all women get upset about this. You must appreciate that all that (some) women want is to sleep with you. They will feel happy.

Answer 7

I can't speak for woman, but I would say that it's not what you say but how you say it. Also make sure that you read the signs right. The woman that gets upset is most likely not "on the same page." Also, it wouldn't be bad to have looks like Mathew Mcconaughy if you want to take a bold approach by just stating those intentions.

Answer 8

Would you get upset if I told you that all they want from you is to ask dumb questions. I really don't think you get a lot of women. Women are just as able to think and have their own opions as you can, so if you can't even please a women, why wouldn't they get upset when you say that to them. Because your lack of ability to please a women, they most likly get upset because they can only find meat-heads like you.

Answer 9

because some women don't expect the man to be so up front with them and it's kinda a slap in the face when you tell them, especially when you gave them a romantic night and you mess it up with telling them that all i want to do is sleep with you!!!! sometimes women expect different things from different men....

Answer 10

Hey the more honest the better, I hate the whole shortcuts, but please do not be all about the BJ, you know the mentality do for me, oh and I do very little for you, if you want to experience a one nighter do it right with great enthusiaism for the gal you are about to explore, please spare us women the "I had a bad experience with that" or the "You first, heh heh" if a woman takes you to her room, you aren't her first so put on a condomn also, cover up and do you part

Answer 11

I don't know. I would appreciate the honesty for a change instead of the fake "I wanna have a relationship" types. More men need to be honest. Because sometimes that's all a woman may want from you.