My ex cheated on me with this other guy, now shes calling me, and i found out she went looking for me where i used to live. What should i do?
2006-09-06 07:50:29 · 20 answers · asked by Jimmy35 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her you've moved on and she should do the same.
2006-09-06 07:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Answer her call one time.
Explain to her that although she is making an effort to keep in contact, you're not interested. Once a cheater always a cheater and even if she promises not to cheat; it's not worth trying and then end up getting hurt.
Inform her that she made a choice and her choice was to cheat which is now effecting her. Let her know that you've moved on and you wish the same for her. Then, hang up and don't answer her call ever again.
2006-09-06 07:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her find out what she wants maybe just wants to be friends with u and if she wants to get back together then remember the golden rule everyone deserves a second chance unless it was one of your mates that she cheated on u with listen to what she has to say and then say your bit and see were it goes from there
2006-09-06 07:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by spud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think long and hard wether you want to talk to her again. There is a theory that if she did it once she will do it again. If you decide you do want to talk to her again then proceed with extreme caution. Find out why she cheated and what she plans to do to not have herself in that position again. If you feel the behavior is correctable, then you can give her another chance.
2006-09-06 07:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by Melanie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u shud give her a second chance as she went on looking for YOU where u used to belong. Means she searched for u. She needs u and that is why she was trying to find u out. Talk with her once. Knw whatz d matter n all....
n then decide.
2006-09-06 08:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally could never go back to someone who cheated on me. I think it depends on your personal opinion and the strength of the relationship with your ex before she cheated. If you think she's worth it, then you could try again, just be careful. It's not always true, but in my opinion if someone cheats once they will cheat again.
2006-09-06 07:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly this girl isn't worth it. Don't go with girls that have a tendency to cheat. It will only hurt you worse in the furure.
2006-09-06 07:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by CE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She cheated on u... whats more to say... Shes not right for u. Get her out of ur hed, and move on. As hard as it seems but u need to move on.
2006-09-06 07:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, she decides the grass isn't greener on the other side? If she cheated once, she could do it again.
2006-09-06 08:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by blueiz22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to let it go man you don't want to be with no one who would cheat on you it shows that she didn't respect you, you deserve someone WAY better than that, but I know its gonna be hard but try to be strong for yourself because no one else will!
2006-09-06 07:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by brownsuga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her, she is not good for you. If you go back to her she will do it to you over and over again. Or talk to her and tell her that you are not a toy, no matter how much she swears she won't do it again. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-09-06 07:55:36 · answer #11 · answered by lluvia2wcc 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋