2006-09-06 07:44:19 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know it's time, when you don't have to ask.
2006-09-06 07:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
In about 10 years.
2006-09-06 07:45:33 · answer #2 · answered by Dave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no specific time to get married. Anytime thats good for you is good.
It depends on if you have met the right person... then start from there.
It's very common for people to get married in their 30's now... as people live alot longer these days. So it's always different for each person.
The most important thing to consider is the financial security.
It fine if you love someone and they love you too. But you must be in a good financial position or thrive to be there. As most marriage break down due to financial problems.
I think it's best to date first and to find who you are.... even when I'm 30 I don't know where I am most of the time... but it does get clearer.... And boy I've changed so much from when I was a teenager..
And you will have a better life if you wait until you are good enough to support yourself first..before making a decision that will change your life. never rely on the other person to support you... if in case down the line you need something to fall back on.
It's not harsh words, it's just reality.... I've seen enough of my friends getting married (which is right) but then something happens and they can't support themselves... it's a ugly picture.
Just be safe and make sure you make the right choice.
2006-09-06 08:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by swma76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to wait five years after knowing "the person" you would marry, i knew my husband since I was 13 we married when I was 18 and I still wished we waited, but all in all I feel safe to say we have a good marriage open communication , and trust are just a few things that are key qualities in a marriage take marriage counseling before and after the wedding also it doesn't have to with of time you get married, but the relationship between the couple! GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-06 07:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by sunistao 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding the right person, but as well, have you lived your life for you yet? Do you know who you are inside? Or are you ready to be someones wife already, and not someone. Spend some time living life for you, and trust me, 18 is pretty young to decide who is the right one. What you see in a man right now, can change 6 months from now. As you get older, you will have more firm thoughts on what you want in a man, at 18, you want immediate satisfaction. Everyone does. Give it time. Live together, date, just hold off on the legality. If he really loves you, he will wait, and be patient.
2006-09-06 07:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by Allycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe an 18 year old would even think about getting married. What is your hurry? I didn't get married until I was 35. I had So Much fun when I was in my 20's and early 30's.
2006-09-06 07:46:57 · answer #6 · answered by jim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In 10 or 15 years.
2006-09-06 07:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the person, the time was right for me just before I turned 23, I had been in the military for 4 years I had dated a few people had even been engaged once, but I wasn't ready until I realized that Donald was the man for me and that he was the love of my life and that there was no one else that could make me as happy as he could. So you really need to just look inside yourself and ask am I really ready to be married to this person, do I really want to spend the rest of my life with him??? if the answer is no then it is not the right or he just isn't the right person :-) Good luck.
2006-09-06 08:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by autbrat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After you have learned how to live, budget, and survive on your own. I strongly suggest getting your own place or a place with a girlfriend before you get married. You will feel much stronger and confident if you take the time to discover how strong you are on your own. You will make a better partner if you know how to survive and do things independently. It important to learn how to manage a check book, pay bills, clean an entire apartment/house, shop for groceries etc... Then you can rely on your mate because you want to, and not because you HAVE to... Don't get caught in the trap of playing house with a man just so you can be together 24/7. You will rob yourself of an awesome learning experience.
2006-09-06 07:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by lnfinitelylnteresting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 18 too and i would marry my boyfriend in a heart beat, but we have decided that the best thing to do is wait until we're 21 or 22 so that we can save up money, finish our education (college), and have a full bar at the reception, lol!
2006-09-06 07:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quite possibly never - why the rush?! Get married when the person you fall in love with loves you back, respects you and you can picture being old and wrinkly together...havig said that, that's what I did, and ended up divorced 4 years later lol
2006-09-06 07:46:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋