my boyfriend told me last night thtat he had thought about breaking up with me but he said that he wasn't going to and that he had thought wrong about that! He made me mad and I didn't not know what to tell him!!!! Please help me figure this out!!
2006-09-06 07:37:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to leave you alone. Unless you like the drama.
2006-09-06 07:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by rchbrk6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well was he thinking about doing it then but changed his mind? He shouldn't have told you. If it was at some point in the past then don't be mad but ask why he wanted to maye. Maybe it was something you were doing. Even though he stayed it could still be something for you to work on if you can agree that it's a reasonable thing for him to not like.
You're mad because you feel rejeted. Tell him that.
Also consider this possibility, maybe he was going to hook up with another girl so he was going to break up with you but, then he couldn't get another girl so he decided to stay.
2006-09-06 07:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a thought remains a thought unless its uttered out loud. it appears he wants you to be on the ALERT. perhaps you've done something he doesnt quite approve of or, he was misinformed about something.
I think the normal reaction is to be mad at someone for telling you what he has told you. Are you on speaking terms with him at the moment? Just level with him and say it upset you that he never discussed things with you as his girlfriend and just 'decided' to break up. thats not a nice way of parting, but then, not everyone is nice.
I'd probably say to him that if he doesnt do things that involve me, then *I* will be the one breaking it up with *him*. simple really.
2006-09-06 07:47:32 · answer #3 · answered by Wisdom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why are you mad at least he was being honest with you he could have not said anything and left you in the dark of what he was thinking or feeling maybe you should talk with him with a open mind and listen to him and ask him why he was thinking of breaking up with you and what changed his mind it could be something you both could work out together to make a better culmination relationship
2006-09-06 07:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by fancey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right talk to him tell him that what he said made u upset and angry and ask him why he was thinking of breaking up with u because if i was u i would want to know why . i think that u also need to tell him that you feel abit strange after what he said and that u need some time to think about what was said .
2006-09-06 07:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by spud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to ask him why he wanted to break up with you in the first place. Try to work your problems out.
2006-09-06 07:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by rachelly22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, its just a THOUGHT! i had thought of breaking up with my gf MANY TIMES in the 3 months... but we were together for a year and half! its just a thought! i bet you THINK of many things, which you NEVER EVER do... its just the same!
2006-09-06 07:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK to HIM! Find out what the problem is and discuss why you should stay together if he is having these thoughts. TALK to HIM!
2006-09-06 07:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by MommaOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that's funny I thought about the same thing with you, and I am gonna do it.
2006-09-06 07:42:20 · answer #9 · answered by VeeateU 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE HE WAS THINKING ABOUT IT AND WAS GETTING ADVISE.THAT ADVISE TOLD HIM HE WOULD BE STUPID TO BREAK UP WITH YOU.HE WASN'T NICE BY TELLING YOU THAT.LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU ARE MAD AND GO FROM THERE
2006-09-06 07:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋