He has over 9000 friends and 8000 comments - ALL GIRLS. I confronted him about this and he said its a joke. He said his friends are on there for him trying to rack up his comments to 10,000. Is he cheating? How do I find out for sure? If so, how do i get his account deleted?
2006-09-06 07:18:26 · 38 answers · asked by Q&A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, his cell phone always rings with long distance numbers. He's secretive with his phone. He has it practically glued to his body.
2006-09-06 07:20:10 · update #1
That's Crazy, Don't Put Up With That Bull ****. Leave Him And Forget About The Profile. I Knew A Guy Who Was Doing This To His GF Behind Her Back And Everyone Thought He Was Lying, Manipulative, Horrible Man And She Eventually Saw Him For What He Really Was And Left Him. You Should Too!
2006-09-06 07:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To begin with, you have no business trying to get his account deleted. If he's cheating on you, he's cheating. Closing his account won't make him stop.
Now to find out if he's even *cheating*, you have to answer a few questions.
1. Have you made it clear that you expect each other to date only one another? If you haven't defined your relationship as one involving only each other and noone else and he's seeing other people, then its not cheating.
2. Do you want to be in a relationship with him? You don't seem to be able to trust him with a (mostly) harmless website or even his own phone. If there is a trust issue, and exclusive relationship is not likely to work.
3. Does he want to be in an exclusive relationship with you? Maybe he doesn't believe in the 'one guy, one girl' form of dating.
4. Have you asked him directly if he's seeing/dating/sleeping with people other than you?
Now as for hm being 'secretive' about his phone. I'd want to keep anything of value to me away from a partner like you too! You want to destroy his website because you suspect him of cheating. I can imagine he's worried you'll damage his property (phone) if you got ahold of that too.
In the end, you have to either give him the benefit of the doubt or leave him. You also might want to mature a little before hopping right into your next relationship after this one too. It seems like you're a very jealous and posessive person whose prone to acts of spite. You need to grow up before inflicting yourself upon someone new.
2006-09-06 07:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by fjonesstarr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I just found my significant other on 3 dating web sites and he told me it was all a joke and it would never happen again, when I confronted him - so I sent him an e-mail with a fake profile exactly 1 hour after he and I talked - he responded to it, and said he loved my profile - and he'd love to meet me cause his last relationship sucked (which was me) - trust me - he's lying to you - Ive since found out its been going on for a long time - he's a player - and a user - kick him to the curb. He's not worth your trouble and effort. Best of luck - he doesnt deserve you. I'm not a teenager either - im in my 50's so if it happened here its happening to you also.
2006-09-06 07:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would say he is definitely cheating. It's a lack of respect and trust. That is the real issue. He's continuing to do something that makes you feel betrayed, and he obviously disregards your feelings. You're not supposed to keep secrets in a relationship. Can you imagine what he's hiding from you? Icky! Confront him again and ask him to put himself in your shoes. I'll bet his first instinct would be to leave you! Ask him to be more mature and take this relationship more seriously. He's obviously treating your love and affection like a high school game.
2006-09-06 07:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by Suz E. Home BAKER 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't get his account deleted!! How ridiculous can you be? Oh, or are you one of those people that believes calling him your bf means you own him? The problem here is you are trying to fool yourself, he's obviously still doing some heavy flirting at the very least...but the rest is about you, you havet his idea of what you want the two of you to be but that doesn't mean you can just wipe out everyone else on the planet to get what you want....however you are free to wise up at any moment. He obviously isn't taking your relationship as seriously as you are and there is nothing you can do about that, its his choice and he's free to make it...you can decide not to put up with it though.
2006-09-06 07:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ya it definitely sounds like hes cheating on you. Id dump him. I don't know how you could find out for sure but if hes being secretive about the phone that's a dead giveaway right there. Talk to him about it plus if you wanted get your own myspace and act like your another girl and see what he does...then you will probably find out for sure. Anyway, good luck !
2006-09-06 07:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this guy sounds alot like me. When I was married I pulled a stunt somewhat similar. He wants to end it with you, but he is keeping you around for a fail safe. I locked my cell phone up so no one but me could look at it, and I went out and picked up women. Until I could find one suitable I stayed with her as a fail safe. My relationships end after a few months due to the fact that once the spark is gone (adrenaline rush) then I move on, but I always stay with that person until I find another one.
2006-09-06 07:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by nshappe 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't delete someone's account without their password, and then you'll need their password to their e-mail account. But you can't just delete someones account like that. That's obsessive, and it's not yours.
Big deal if he's got a ton of comments. Maybe he was looking for a girlfriend before he met you and he just didn't delete everything.
2006-09-06 07:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by nowimrelaxedicantbesure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 00:44:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to your question. He is scouting for a new girlfriend and then he is going to dump you. Deleting his myspace account isn't going to save your relationship. In fact, it will give him another reason to get rid of you. My question to you is, why would you want to stay with someone who treats you this way? Don't you deserve better?
2006-09-06 07:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋