very devoted 20 yrs.mate is physically handiapped,I told him when time comes,I would want to marry an officer of the law for many reasons,one major reason is security.I have 5 children,youngest is 9.yrs I want them to always feel safe and secure.I have one son that is good friends with an officers son,He tells me that all there is is arguing.I need input.
2006-09-06 06:52:36 · 12 answers · asked by sassy brat 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
please dont put me down for preparing for future ahead of time so he knows what Im gonna do to ensure a good life for his children and my self,we are open minded.I am only 36 and i will be by his side always.he is pushing 50.his dad died of lung cancer @ 63.He smokes 2 packs a day I need to prepare for the future.
2006-09-06 07:18:27 · update #1
My hubby is an officer! umm.. We have friends and they argue all the time about the hours that he has to work! Sometimes an extra shift sometimes it can be as few as 2 hours..lol... A lot don't like the dangers involved and the stuff that can happen to them. There are times my hubby isn't home for the holidays or gets called out during one of our kids b-day party. Before we got married my hubby wanted to be a cop and he told me of the hours he may be workingg, and the dangers of what could happen (God forbid) and I told him if it was what he wanted to do, I am behind him all the way! We have been married for 5 years, he's been a police officer for 3! I love him and it was a risk I am willing to take! Our marriage is great, granted he's workin more than he's home, but I knew what I was getting into before we got married. lol..many officers spouses don't like that. I am not sure if that helped ya out at all but I hope so! If ya have any questions just send me mail!
have a good day!
2006-09-06 13:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by woohooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the pros is that he works. Moslty works to help people. Cons...well, he might take his job too seriously that it will affect the way he handles situations outside of a uniform (like being bossy, always in control, and a Yes Sir attitude)..his job is risky...there is no set schedule as it always changes...If you can put up with him having shift work and missing inportant parts of your life and your kids then it is ok.. After all, Love is what matters and not work.
2006-09-06 06:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by cbg_mx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife just doesn't like some of the hours I work. The overnights that turn into double shifts. I work some holidays including xmas, easter, etc.
I'm not going to generalize and tell you that some cops are abusive or not. Some doctors, artist, bus drivers can be abusive.
2006-09-06 07:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally wouldn't mar anyone. But if you're really angry with him, maybe some nice acid on his arm or something. Just a small scar to teach him a lesson.
I don't know if marring an officer carries a higher sentence than marring a civilian though. It might. You could get labeled as a "cop marrer."
2006-09-06 06:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by CuteWriter 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he the angry, steroid, trigger happy type?
NO.
Is he the kindergarten cop type?
Sure.
By the way, you don't need a cop to make you feel secure. A big dog can do that.
2006-09-06 06:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by stubber_nubber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, cops are known for their devotion to wives. Very secure. Good luck with that.
2006-09-06 06:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by Paladin 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
was married to police officer, still married to guy but he retired. worst thing about it was worrying if something would happen to him, (such as shot by bad guy). other than that no worse than married to anyone else, i assume. there are good and bad in all professions.
2006-09-06 07:44:52 · answer #7 · answered by ann k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he isn't abusive. A lot of cops have mean streaks and exposive personalities.
2006-09-06 06:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by Adam Ant 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Are you saying your current mate is disabled, and that when the time comes (his death) - you want to marry a cop?
What a skank you are!
Shame on you!
2006-09-06 06:57:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
pros - you get off with tickets and everything else
cons - most are a$$holes, they think they r above the law.
2006-09-06 06:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by Marcus P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋